<p>I was wondering if this sort of question would come up.</p>
<p>Are you out to your family? Having the support of your family, especially your parents if they are funding your education, is essential. I know way too many people here who can’t be out because they would be immediately disowned. I also know some who were disowned after coming out as LGBTQ+ or even as a straight ally. If you have your family’s support, both emotional and financial, you will be a lot better off. Even if you don’t have their support, things can still work out.</p>
<p>UA has had a gay-straight alliance, now known as Spectrum, for over 30 years, and has a very successful Safe Zone program in which many faculty and staff, including everyone employed by UA Housing, are members. Note too that many LGBTQ+ students are not in Spectrum. Spectrum has a great program for new students where everyone in the group goes out to dinner and does other fun activities every month or so.</p>
<p>As for dating, there is a sizable pool of people, but remember that Tuscaloosa and surrounding areas around only have around 150,000 people, so there will be less people to choose from than a larger city. Also keep in mind that a lot of people will not be out, so openly dating them may not be possible. Icon is technically an Alternative Lifestyle bar, but has a mostly LGBTQA+ clientele. It’s often joked that the best Gay Bar in Atlanta is actually the Quest in Birmingham because as a private club, it can be open 24/7. Note that one must be 19 to enter bars and clubs in Alabama.</p>
<p>Incidents of overt homophobia on or near campus are very rare and any harassment will get the harasser sent to Judicial Affairs very quickly. In the vast majority of circles you’ll be in, people won’t care that you’re gay and in fact, you will likely be one of many LGBTQ+ students. </p>
<p>College is a great time to go on dates and meet potential spouses regardless of ones sexual orientation. Being gay, you have the special benefit of having your potential dating pool increase each year as more gay students come out. I know some very attractive gay guys at UA, not to mention other members of the LGBTQ+ community, with 4.0s in difficult majors who’d make great boyfriends, husbands, and fathers.</p>