<p>My straight guy friends constantly tell me that I am pretending to be gay so that I can get close to girls. What bs.</p>
<p>Well, as it turns out to be, all of my close guys friends are pretty much gay. I love them, they're so great, hilarious, and cute, but of course, no hook-ups! Omg it sucked, a story:</p>
<p>so I was gunna ask my really great guy friend, Jake to prom. Well I asked him, and he said he'd think about it. And I was just wondering, why would he say no, I mean we're really good friends, and he's gone with the same boring girl to all other high school dances. </p>
<p>Well one day, I met my other friend, Emily who is best friends with Jake, in the hallway. I was like, "hey emily!" and she asked me who i was going to prom with. I told her I asked Jake but didn't understand why he hadn't said 'yes' yet. </p>
<p>She goes, "awwh... well he prlly doesn't want to ask a guy."</p>
<p>THAT IS HOW I FOUND OUT. OMFG, it sucked. After that everything made sense. </p>
<p>Ex. he's always obsessing over the way looks. He fixes his hair ALL the time, and talks about his clothing. </p>
<p>We're still way good friends, but I never looked at him the same way again, you know? </p>
<p>:Sigh: I'm tired of gay guys. It's so weird, it seems like there are a lot of gay guys nowadays. </p>
<p>I want a straight guy to sweep me off my feet.</p>
<p>I heard 1 out 3 guys at the college I'll be attending in the fall is gay. Great news for me.. I didn't expect this at all. No wonder the girls are complaining that nearly every desirable guy is gay.. the male to female ratio is about 40:60. I might end up not wanting to transfer to Brown or NYU after all.</p>
<p>uhh..i dont really care about the orientation as long as they're good people. i have female and male friends from all orientations; some ive known were gay or bi, some not. it doesnt really matter.</p>
<p>I agree with CABARCAMO18. I'm a straight guy and have female and male friends from all orientations as well. I'd rather consider a school with a large gay population is a good thing because that tells people who go there are open minded and nice (gay acceptable) instead of closed-minded and hateful.</p>
<p>Being open minded or close minded are both terrible choices. The ideal choice is to be rational minded.</p>
<p>Orientation doesn't bother me the least bit. There are several gay boys whom I love to death.</p>
<p>However, I would like to say that being open minded isn't only about accepting homosexuality. It's also about accepting those who don't accept homosexuality. Don't jump to conclusions when people say that they're "open minded".</p>
<p>Assuming that straight guys all want to "get in your pants" is as narcissistic as a homophobe assuming that all gay guys want to get in his pants.</p>
<p>to the OP:</p>
<p>you watch sex and the city?
you're gay</p>
<p>Come now, there are plenty of straight guys who watch soap operas revolving around the sex lives of multiple girls.</p>
<p>whoops, sorry about the misuse/unclear use of term "open minded."</p>
<p>From most of the comments in this thread, I'd be willing to bet most of you don't even know any gay guys.</p>
<p>Well, if gay-rights groups are to be believed, 1 in 10 people are gay. That would make it hard for people not to know any gays. Even the 2% number would make it difficult.</p>
<p>Yea there are gays all around. As long as they don't try to hit on me, let them be.</p>
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<p>What's so wrong with that?</p>
<p>Because I don't like to be hit on by gays.</p>
<p>But it really shouldn't matter, should it? Maybe you hit on lesbians who don't like to get hit on by guys, but is it gonna stop you from hitting on every girl that you think is straight? And if it doesn't stop you, why should something as trivial as that stop gay men from hitting on other men?</p>
<p>I never hit on any lesbian. I know this for a fact. I don't even look, sound, etc remotely gay. I would just find it uncomfortable if someone did. Irrational? Probably yes. Buts it one of those little irrational things we all have in our character.</p>
<p>Hey, to each his own, right?</p>
<p>Yea I suppose so.</p>