<p>I like dirty blonde hair. </p>
<p>BUT I have to give some mad love for gingers.</p>
<p>Red hair!</p>
<p>But I generally love all natural hair colors that don't classify as "mousy" or "grey."</p>
<p>Dark dark shiny black hair = <33
Or Blonde... maybe...</p>
<p>oh man about the boys thing. . . Generall I don't go crazy for boys I havn't talked to. I will crush on guys I don't know, but not nearly as seriously as boys I know. </p>
<p>I am horrrrrrrible about telling guys I like them, as I almost always crush on boys who I consider out of my league. Right now I'm actually in a situation where I am insane over this guy I know, but he just stopped being friends with this girl when he found out she wanted to be more, and wasn't willing to just be friends, so I'm totally clueless about how to go on with this. My plan is I'll just keep on trying to be his friend and hope something developes. I'd rather just be his friend with no hope of anything more than lose of the friendship for a chance at something. </p>
<p>GUYS: How would you feel if a female friend told you she liked you?</p>
<p>I wish this female friend would tell me that.</p>
<p>It all depends on the girl, and the relationship.... if she is cool with liking me and understanding if I don't necessarily reciprocate the feelings, then it's cool...</p>
<p>If I'm not very attracted to her, then it can also be awkward.... ESPECIALLY if she wants reciprocation.</p>
<p>okay what if your not super attracted to her, but she's not repulsive, and you have fun hanging out together, and she's okay with it not being reciprocated but wouldn't mind if it were.... would that just totally turn it akward or would you still be able to hang out like before?? Would you be more uncomfortable or more flattered?</p>
<p>damn, how can you tell if he's attracted to you???? <em>tears hair out</em>. . . . .<em>realizes she's bald, scrapes together all of her pulled out hair, glues it together and slaps it back on her head</em></p>
<p>I suppose that's the deciding factor right? whether or not he's attracted. . . <em>sigh</em> how do you figure that out?</p>
<p>If a female friend told me she liked me, well depends if I want the relationship to progress. Either way, I am extremly shy around girls I like, not so I am just friends with. Sigh. I think my crushes think Im cold or distant sometimes.</p>
<p>I really don't want a relationship right now. Its high school, and I definitely do NOT want to have to weigh myself down with a full on relationship. THey never work out, and I would much rather NOT be stuck with one person for the next 2 years. Come on, we all have to bounce around freely in this McDonalds playpen called High School :)</p>
<p>yeahh TALL DARK AND HANDSOME is a giant plus.</p>
<p>this guy who likes me is kindof a creepy stalker..</p>
<p>and he is
short
and he could be my little brother!! o_0</p>
<p>and hes moody and snappish all the time too x_x.</p>
<p>In most cases I would prefer if the girls just said something. As griff said, knowing that they guy might not reciprocate but that this shouldn't mess up the friendship or whatever. </p>
<p>In my case its quite funny for how I show that I like girls. I actually don't show it at all except for always making eye contact when about to walk past, most girls I fall for I've only spoken to a couple of times because they are one or two grades below me or we don't go to the same parties etc. So I just stay away from them because I feel there is not right moment to approach her. :( which is sad. The worst is that when I look at them and they look at me I can sense an attraction from both ways but I don't do anything. So then I go out with someone who is closer just because I can or hit on someone and then when they expect me to go steady separate.</p>
<p>..damn I have a problem :(</p>
<p>but nvm equine I doubt there are many others like this...</p>
<p>yeah I'm deffinetly in college, and have deffinetly lived single long enough. I want a man! lol</p>
<p>It's agrivating when the only people who like you are creepy. I feel like girls get this more than guys... I deffinetly had a football player (NOT a cute one) im me (oh who HAS a gf) and basically ask to get in my room... hmmmmmm I wonder what FOR??? yeah. no. I also get my fair share of creepers yelling at me in the street. Why can't it ever be someone normal?? grr</p>
<p>UGH yeah. i don't know WHY, but i always seem to attract the worst of the losers. and im not saying in terms of looks or social cliques. i am saying that on the INSIDE, they are LOSERS. they are usually superficial and the only compliments they can give me are "you're hella nice" and "you're really hot". X_X..and the ultimate is when they look at my pictures and claim they are in love with me. BAH. i just want to bonk them on the head. 50 times.</p>
<p>Aside from puzzling over what physical attributes females like best, I've always wondered whether or not 'young girls' get all excited and gitty over love letters or Romantic writing. For some reason I always assumed this does not kick in until they're older (older meaning late 20s). It seems more like the late-teenage age group is interested in the "bad-ass" guy rather than the romancer. I know every girl is different, but there has to be a majority appeal.</p>
<p>I like a little of both in a guy. Honestly I would be a touch creeped out by a loveletter from a guy I don't know well. In guys I don't like TOTAL badasses, but I am never attracted to a guy who I feel gives in easily. I personally love to argue, and I love that back and forth energy when discussing something where the other person takes a stand and defends themself. If I ever henpecked a guy, or a guy let me henpeck him, that would be the sign that it's over. I would say 70% badass with 30% sweetheart is a good mix. A rough edge is always a good thing. </p>
<p>yeah, a love letter would creep me out unless it were in a humerous way or from someone i've known forever. A letter or email saying how you feel is entirley another thing--that I would see as a bold move to be respected and it shows that your serious. I woul find a love letter creepy/sappy. But that's just me.</p>
<p>By "love letter", I meant more of a "letter to show how you feel". I'm not sure what the objective standard on what a "love letter" is, but it clearly has different connotations. But 70% badass, 30% sweetheart definitely shows a significant advantage for the badass side, so I seem to be partly right in my assumptions. There should be some book delineating what most girls find creepy, since it seems like almost anything these days. Decades back, I don't think most people had to worry much about "creeping out" a girl or "being seen as a stalker" by her. Rather these things would just show her that shes liked and admired - or so I gather from the old tales.</p>
<p>Everything was easier in the 20s ;)</p>
<p>Whatever you do... If your name is "Crazy Travis" do not "comfort"/touch a sarcrastic girl when she says she thinks she's going to die.</p>
<p>Bad memories.</p>