<p>I’m baaa…ack. 
My take on this, and I have to admit I just scanned the thread, is that your “safety” or back up school, should be the same choice list, but an application made next year. I’m telling my candidate that if she doesn’t get in this time around…all is not lost. It may be better in fact to wait an additional year. Living independently may be easier for most at age 15 vs. 14. Reapplying shows your commitment and interest in a particular school. Rather than go to a “safety” less desired school, why not take a hard look at your application, seek some feedback and go at it again next year with renewed determination to find that best fit, and or get into the school you really want to attend? Good Luck to all. The last few months have been REALLY stressful for kids AND parents…so many parent statements and so little time :)</p>