<p>@momdoc: Honestly, last year when I was deciding to come to Bowdoin, I was 100% sure that the small student body was what I wanted. Now that I’m about to complete my first year, it’s not all that great (having a small student body). After a few months, it’s like you’ve seen everyone there is to see. I know that doesn’t sound right considering that Bowdoin has ~1700 students, but it’s the truth. There are days where I feel it’s very routine; I wake up and see the same people everyday. However, you should know that I come from a big city, and I’m used to seeing new people and being surrounded by so many people all the time. </p>
<p>I wouldn’t say that I know everyone in my class, but I know, by face, a decent amount of my class. </p>
<p>Gossip is prevalent. It’s not like everyday someone is gossiping, but given that the school is small, gossip is pretty prevalent here.</p>
<p>@blarghh: I am a non-drinker so we already relate! Haha. I’m not going to sit here and lie to you, one of the reasons my first semester was hell because of the fact that I didn’t drink. I don’t live in chem-free housing (to my knowledge and based off my observations, chem-free housing kids are pretty tight), my roommates drink and I don’t, and drinking is pretty dominant force here on campus. I had a hard time finding a “group” because people tend to clique up here and plus I was going through the general college problems (homesickness, missing my best friends back home, missing the city, etc). I can’t really speak on what non-drinkers in general do on weekends even though I’m a non-drinker myself. I know that I occasionally have my in-nights in the dorm where I just chill on my laptop/watch a movie/etc and the few times that I have been in the chem-free dorms, I’ve seen students just chill in their room, talk/converse, play board games, do random things, and even go to parties (it’s not just about drinking, you could have a good time dancing with friends). </p>
<p>But by no way, shape, or form do people judge you or think you’re weird for not drinking. Everyone, even my roommates, have respected my decision to not drink. You’ll here people say “it’s cool” if you don’t drink. I haven’t come across someone who made fun of me, or anyone else for that matter, for not deciding to drink. </p>
<p>I don’t have regrets, but looking back at it now, I would have signed up for chem-free housing. I think it would’ve made my transition way smoother and easier. The reason I didn’t sign up for chem-free was because I wanted to be “open to anything.” </p>
<p>Oh, and to add to the stigma thing, I don’t think there is a stigma around the students. I mean I’ve heard chem-free and non chem-free students make sly comments towards each other (sometimes jokingly) like “Thank God I don’t have to come back to a bathroom that has throw up in the toilet.”</p>