Got offer from one school, still waiting on another

Graduate School
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<p>I received a PhD offer from school A, but they want me to make a decision soon. Meanwhile, I'm waiting for results to come in from B. B is better than A, but by the time B tells me whether I got in, the decision period for A will have already ended. B is not 100%, but I have a good chance.</p>

<p>A is pretty good, but B is really good. It would be stupid to pass up such an opportunity to go to B. On the other hand, it would be equally stupid to lose the proverbial bird in the hand while going after two in the bush, and end up without any position at all.</p>

<p>Ideally, A would agree to extend the decision deadline, so I can wait until B decides, then go to B if they offer and go to A if not.</p>

<p>How do I handle this situation diplomatically?</p>

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<p>Call them up and ask them for an extension. Worst they’ll do is say no, they won’t rescind your offer.</p>

<p>You can also try calling B and asking a date or the likelihood of you getting a spot. Have you been able to visit this school to verify it’s where you really want to go, too?</p>

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<p>No school can require you to decide before April 15. If it gets down to the wire, you technically CAN tell a school yes and rescind later, but it’s not particularly nice.</p>

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Yes, they can.</p>