<p>All these people thought that my active parenting was odd. They assumed parenting had been foisted upon me. What I remember most about their comments [was/is] that I began to believe them and to doubt my ability to be as good a parent as my wife might be. </p>
<p>Answer: IS</p>
<p>How come? Past tense was used the entire time (thought... assumed...)</p>
<p>Oh wait... sh**! Is it because it says "that I began to believe them" ?? If it were past it would have to be "that I HAD begun to believe them" ??</p>
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<p>What's the diff between may/might? </p>
<p>A grocery checker may/might comment that Mom must have needed some "beauty sleep," and so "poor Papa" was sent out shopping</p>
<p>might is correct. I originally chose might because I thought "may" = permission. But now that I look at dictionary.com, may can also mean possibility. So why is might correct over may?!?!</p>