<p>Bandit and WindCloud, I'm breaking my own rule and posting for the first time here on the Harvard boards. I hope all you Cantabridgians forgive the intrusion. Like you, WindCloud, I often find myself having to defend my alma mater (Princeton) against claims that are totally unfounded and stereotypes with no substance. I'm afraid that it's something Princeton students have to put with as well as Harvard students. </p>
<p>To all the passionate partisans of both schools, including newly admitted students, current students, parents and alumni I say--cheer for your favorites but remember that both of these schools are world-class and both offer great educations.</p>
<p>Like the original poster (and possibly like the two of you, Bandit and WindCloud) I was accepted to Princeton, Harvard, Yale, Stanford and some other great schools. I don't claim to be brilliant, just lucky! I made a personal decision that Princeton was the place where I would thrive, and I'm very happy with that decision. I did end up choosing Harvard for law school and share that experience with Hanna.</p>
<p>The problem with all of these comparisons is that in many of the ways that matter most (types of students admitted, academics, services for students, etc.) all of these schools have far more in common than many applicants, or admitted students realize. Certainly there are differences in setting, culture, focus, etc. and it is legitimate to point out that particular departments are stronger or weaker at particular schools, but the decision as to which one is the right 'fit' is highly personal. I interacted a good deal with Harvard undergraduates when I was in law school and I have numerous friends who went to Yale. I would challenge anyone randomly to pick a dozen students from each school, mix them together in one room and then attempt to identify who went where. The similarities in the types of students accepted at each school are overwhelmingly greater than the differences. </p>
<p>As to the stereotypes, Princeton students are NOT typically snobby/rich/elitist. Harvard students are NOT typically unfriendly/know-it-all/hyper-competitive. Princeton as an institution is not entirely about the undergraduates (its graduate programs are among the best in the world) and Harvard as an institution is not entirely about the graduate and professional school students (its undergraduates get a world-class education). At both of these two schools and at many other competitive schools you'll find a heady mix of interesting, smart, talented and friendly young people.</p>
<p>I would strongly urge the original poster to read the very fair and balanced thread pointed out by Scipio in the first half dozen posts on this thread. Unless it has degenerated recently, it is a great discussion of some of the foolish stereotypes about Princeton, Harvard and Yale and also includes a thoughtful discussion of some of the differences.</p>