Have you ever been surprised to learn that some people hate you?

<p>Well, I actually found out that some people in school that I have no idea about hates me...lol actually I may have had a "hi there" "bye", little chit chat here and there with them, but they hate me for some reason...</p>

<p>And I'm not even a girl! I don't get involved in drama--I guess I did something wrong, but I was pretty surprised. I never really had an opinion about them--I was pretty surprised to see they have a strong opinion about me like that.</p>

<p>Has this ever happened to you?</p>

<p>Think about the threads you’ve posted on here and how you’ve responded. That should give you a clear cut answer as to why they might hate you.</p>

<p>No this has never happened to me in front of my face, but I’m sure someone hates me when I’m sarcastic with them repeatedly.</p>

<p>^ Actually I’m almost positive John hates you. Maybe you should quit posting on his threads if you hate hime so much.</p>

<p>Btw, hate is a really strong word. Especially for an online site where you’ve never actually met any of these people.</p>

<p>I’m a lot nicer in real life than in forums though. I think about a lot of things before I respond.
It takes time for me to come up with cutting replies and stuff. But in real life, I just stay quiet and nod and smile awkwardly…and then it hits me after a while after the conversation that the guy I was talking to was being mean lol.</p>

<p>@ladyjacket: Have you experienced anything like that in real life? I kinda feel disturbed about it when you have a group of people who dislike you for a reason (hate is a strong word, yes).</p>

<p>@MattNC: I really don’t know what I did to make you mad. And I don’t really beat myself over the head about it. I’ve made a lot of friends at CC, I’m happy with that. If you notice in a lot of threads, you insult me, but I usually don’t respond or insult you back.
Like ladyjacket said, if you don’t like me, don’t write on my threads. Unless you’re willing to be friends, which I don’t mind.</p>

<p>■■■■■ …yes! especially when you’re so nice to them…andthey don’t show any signs of disliking you…thenyou find out that they don’t like you :[</p>

<p>A lot of the people that were nice to me in my freshman and earlier sophomore years are now…they don’t necessarily hate me but they don’t seem to really like me anymore…i’ve changed A LOT in H.S. (from to quiet[still talkative tho], shy, reserved to—> Loud, extroverted…) so that could be why…or they might think ive become a *****…idk really. This goes to especially most of the SciOly team…omg…used to have “fun” with them…now most of the team ignores me…ESPECIALLY this year just because I’ve changed (improved/upgraded looks, personality, friends in the past year)??! hahahaha</p>

<p>I kinda notice the disliking-ness when I say “HI!!!1” in the hallways. I can sense it…haha.</p>

<p>But it would be stupid to take it personally though.</p>

<p>Honestly, i don’t know/can’t picture anyone hating me. Maybe disliking me …but not hate. Even if, who would care? You’re winning te battle :P</p>

<p>But i’d say that normally most people like me when they meet me…</p>

<p>No, but frankly, I hate most of my school. So them hating me back is no biggie. It’s when they start being aggressive is when I get that ‘shock’.</p>

<p>^ LOl same here. I pretty much hate…okay…dislike…at least a good 80% of the ppl. (not counting teachers…i like them LOL.).</p>

<p>You’re going to Duke next year, why do these people matter to you? You won’t see them again 10 years from now.</p>

<p>I’m far more surprised that anyone would waste the effort to dislike someone so passionately. </p>

<p>That’s just too much damn work for me.</p>

<p>If it was for my personality, I suppose I wouldn’t care.</p>

<p>If it was for things are are untrue, then I would be mad.</p>

<p>^Yes, its for things that are untrue. I hate it when people (who you don’t know well at all) misunderstand you. Its always been bothering me.</p>

<p>@eastafrobeauty: I. Totally. Understand. You. I’m going through the exact situation here.</p>

<p>When did I ever clearly state I hated you? I just said what I felt might be the culprit, sorry for being straight and serious with you, I’ll use a less truthful approach next time, sheesh.</p>

<p>@ John117: we should be friends (: </p>

<p>inb4chrishansen!!</p>

<p>lol j/k.</p>

<p>I think some of the ppl don’t like me because I don’t like our school…I don’t have school spirit, don’t show up at prom, homecoming, events like that.</p>

<p>I don’t like our school because we have poor test score averages (hence a bad rep), the area its in sucks, the student body isn’t ambitious and its pretty lame compared to the schools around it (no opportunities). Like people have written reviews that our school needs change and whatnot.
I can’t believe people go around hating me for believing in that…I mean what happened to respecting other people’s beliefs?</p>

<p>Well, anyone that’s hated a lot usually hates a lot themselves. Like this one girl, she really hates everything and everyone, it’s odd. She hate’s the class, complains about everyone, is whiny, angsty, yadda. So really, she ends up on everyone’s nerve. She’s kinda funny at times, if she weren’t so chisme I’m sure she’d be fine.</p>

<p>Really, I only found about one lil’ fishy that hates me (which is hilarious). Also, the drama pres, because I was VP of drama and earlier this year we got into it. Otherwise, no one else, well that one girl I was referring to and probably any one else who just hates everyone.</p>

<p>I think I’m good. People seem shocked by the fishy, that someone would just oddly hate me, I think that’s good.</p>

<p>There are really just two kinds of hate. The kind because you’re an annoying person to them, or because of jealousy. I’ve seen the kind of people that get both. You’re not a chick, you shouldn’t be getting the jealousy hate. </p>

<p>Look at what you’re doing maybe, are you being kind of a jerk?</p>

<p>Wait, never mind. I know what it is: you complain a lot. Stop that, it’s annoying. Either do something, volunteer of some kind for your school to make it better, or quit b****ing.</p>

<p>No, you do not hate 80% of your school. Stop lying. And if that’s true, then that’s messed up.</p>

<p>I know this girl who dislike me becuz I get invited to the ‘cool’ parties and she doesn’t (while always being my close friend).
I knew this from my other friends who told me that ‘that girl always **<strong><em>es you when you’re away. She complains about your unpopular self going to parties while her popular self doesn’t.’.
Haha. It’s kinda funny. Nobody even notices her existence. She’s is practically invisible when fellow peers greet me. :smiley:
this sounds mean lol, but listen to her *</em></strong>*ing and u’ll understand.</p>

<p>I don’t hate much (my hate is directed to uber intolerant people and uber bullies, but other than that I have a very non-hating personality)…I don’t hate and I believe that most people don’t hate me in return.</p>

<p>Why can’t we all be friends? :)</p>

<p>Nah. The three people in high school that hated me, I knew about. They weren’t secretive about it at all. </p>

<p>If there were others, they hid it well.</p>

<p>lol why do people hate though? I don’t see the point.
Like there would be people I’d hang out with and all…and this other chill kid walks in and hangs out with us and he’d leave after a while.
Then some guys I hung out with immediately say “Oh he’s probably a di***k, and he looks like those Socal d-bags”</p>

<p>I never saw that in that guy. I thought he was chill…I wonder to myself how many people think similar things like that about me lol.</p>