Good to hear from you oldbatesie. I’m sorry to hear this news, lots of distress and disruption seemingly happening at Haverford. Have you seen this thread?
Oberlin has also chosen to not play spring sports, while the rest of the conference is, AFAIK.
My D is at a NESCAC and it’s not looking like they will have official sports this spring either, her sport is fall and spring, so as a soph, she will have missed 3 of 4 seasons. It’s certainly a sad and curious decision for these schools to not play sports, when as you say, many colleges are playing, as well as high schools.
Good luck to your D, I hope that she can find the strength to persevere.