The latest list you made is almost all reaches, with no safeties. Your safety schools are the most important part of your application. You should tweak your essay to still express your interest in aero while not saying anything about majoring in aero per se.
Here are a few schools which I think you’d get into, possibly with some merit $. Most importantly, they all offer regular engineering degrees AND mechanical engineering technology degrees. If you are dead set on a regular engineering program, you could start out with that. Then if you are struggling, you could switch to engineering technology easily.
**University of North Texas - this one is important because it meets all your stated criteria except having aero. But now you know you that many AeroE’s actually major in MechE! I think you’re actually guaranteed admission here based on your GPA.
Purdue University Fort Wayne - this has the Purdue name that seems to be important to you. You can apply directly to Purdue Fort Wayne. If you apply to Purdue main campus, some potential outcomes are: 1) you’re offered admission to Purdue FYE (huge reach). 2) you’re offered admission to an engineering technology degree within the Purdue Polytech school on the Purdue main campus (possible). 3) you’re offered admission to Purdue Fort Wayne in engineering (possible).
Central Connecticut State University - I like this better than U Conn for you because you could pivot to engineering technology seamlessly.
University of Dayton – wonderful aero opportunities
Kent State University – wonderful aero opportunities
There are others schools that could fit you well, but I encourage you to take a hard look at these.
Don’t apply for CS if you’re not interested in doing CS. That’s like the most competitive major to get into anyway.