<p>First and foremost, let me state that I want the opinion of parents/adults. If it's not necessary, please don't move this to the financial aid forum. </p>
<p>I am a high school senior, currently living in New Jersey. My parents make too much money for me to qualify for financial aid, and have told me that they will devote approximately 200k to my education. This means that if I go to an expensive private university, I will have no money left for graduate school. Therefore, I would like to go to spend my undergraduate years at a university that's reasonably cheap(100k for 4 years ideally), but also quite reputable/selective, for the purpose of saving money for graduate school. What are my chances for getting merit aid and at which schools with the academic profile presented below? Also, I would like to stay in the north east so it's not too expensive or difficult for me to see my family occasionally. </p>
<p>I understand that to some degree I'm trying to bake my cake and eat it too, but I'm interested in other peoples' thoughts. </p>
<p>Academic Profile:
SAT: 2220-800 reading, 710 math, 710 writing (7 essay, 760 Multiple choice)
SAT II's: French 720, Math II 720
GPA: 3.85ish unweighted
Honors courses taken/currently taking: sociology, world history, french accel, AP French Language, Multivariable calculus/Linear Algebra, Precalculus, AP English language, AP English literature, AP Physics C, self studied Calc BC and got a 5 on the AP exam.</p>
<p>I've participated in several activities and excelled in various aspects. Would a scholarship be mostly based on extracurricular/personal qualities at more selective universities? </p>
<p>I'm considering taking a gap year in which I would:
1. get a perfect score on the SAT and some SAT II's-I know I can achieve this.
2. Work in a lab/do some sort of interesting project/get a job </p>
<p>Then, I'd reapply to colleges with a better chance at merit aid. </p>
<p>THOUGHTS?</p>