<p>Peaceful… I’m wondering if part of the problem is that your daughter’s interests are too narrow — or if she is “picky eater” when it come to selecting from the course menu. That is, if she could look at a list like this one – [History</a>, Society, Cultures (HSC) Courses for GER requirement - Area VI | Emory College of Arts and Sciences](<a href=“Welcome to Emory College.”>Welcome to Emory College.) – and decide that there are only 5 courses on that list that she is at all interested in taking, and then be dismayed when she is shut out of those 5. </p>
<p>So whereas another student might have the same experience, that student may be philosophical about another choice. That was my approach – I was more interested in college of meeting my goal of avoiding classes before 10:00 am. … even into law school I took all sorts of stuff I wasn’t interested in because it happened to be offered MWF at 10 am or whatever specific slot I was trying to fill… and very often those turned out to be excellent choices for me. Part of the college experience is expanding one’s own interests – so you never know, the class that now doesn’t “interest” your daughter may end up being her major because of the new doors it opens.</p>
<p>Even if not, it may turn out for the best. My daughter got shut out of a class she thought she wanted her senior year – it was a mistake, because she should have had priority – and she lobbied hard to get in, including sitting for hours outside the door of the department head. She did get into the class… but within 2 weeks she had realized that she did not like the prof. and the course was not what she anticipated. It worked out o.k. – but in hindsight the world wouldn’t have come to an end if she had taken another course. </p>
<p>I don’t know anything about Emory, but I’d also note that when my son was attending a CSU, he discovered at registration that the system would allow him to sign up for many more classes than he could possibly take in a semester. He was a transfer, coming in as a junior, so he had registration priority and he would sign up for 28 or 35 units, and actually go to many of the classes the first week of the semester, but then winnow it down to the courses he liked the best. So that was his way of holding a spot while he shopped – but obviously if a lot of upper level students were doing that, it would cause many classes to seem full when in fact there was plenty of room. (I would fault the people who created the system for that, not the students like my son who were “hoarding” – as I assume that my son isn’t the only one who figured out how to manipulate the registration system to his benefit.)</p>
<p>When I was in college back in the stone age, they had a first-come, first-serve registration system where freshman had the lowest priority – students actually would line up outside the administration building the night before registration started, and break into the building during the night – so when the building opened the following day, the students were already inside, camped out, in line, in their sleeping bags. I think the university wised up and move to a randomized priority system. But even with that system… I ended up getting the classes I wanted. But very often I would switch and join a class that I hadn’t even considered, because some friend would start talking about how wonderful their class was, so I’d go visit the class to check it out – I’d agree and sign up. Again, there was a huge amount of attrition early on – in my day the real key was to get hold of a computer punch card for each class. The “pre-registration” didn’t really count – what counted was being able to get those cards and turn them in within the actual enrollment period after classes had started. I’d sometimes go to a class and it would be so crowded that students would be standing outside the door, overflowing into the hall. But at the end of class… there would be coveted class cards lying on the floor, as students would simply discard them or leave them behind if they decided the class wasn’t what they wanted after all. </p>
<p>Anyway… figuring it all out is part of the learning process. Your d. may be disappointed and venting, but she’ll manage. Pulling her out for the coming semester would simply be depriving her of the learning opportunity and sending a message along the lines of, “if at first you don’t succeed, give up.”</p>