OP, you raise a good reminder that folks should run the NPC at each school and plug in their own family’s information.
At the 100% needs met schools, it is quite possible that a family earning $200K but with 8 kids and no meaningful savings, will get much more need-based aid than another family with the same $200K earnings, but has only 1 child, and a half-million dollars saved up.
It all depends on the school. Deep-pocket schools that have large institutional need-based financial aid programs can afford to be more generous to wealthy families than schools (even 100% meet need schools) that have more limited resources.
In our situation one bio parent is remarried. I called Cornell (a 100% need school) to ask how they calculate financial aid in that case and they said they just use the 2 bio parents. They also said the right way to use the NPC in this case is to run each bio parent separately and add their net prices together. Do not just add the two incomes together as if it’s one household. I ran the numbers and our combined bio parent income of about $195k could result in a need based grant of about $40k. Really hoping that’s anywhere close to accurate! Will repost in a few days when we find out.
Suggestion: make note of your NPC inputs and grab a screen shot of the EFC result. If the actual EFC turns out to be substantially more, you have a good foundation to ask Cornell for an explanation.
Which schools, what COA, how does the award break down. The trouble is this is how myths start. It is more than obvious on threads on CC that people have different idea of what FA means. If you have 3 siblings in college with a 200K income, vs one kid applying to Harvard, for example. Devil is in the details and details are never forthcoming on CC. But for sure, do share, the details.
I got ~35k from both Colgate University and Union College so yes it is usually the better schools that give more money. I also just got into Vassar so hopefully they are comparable with their financial aid.
And if you want some perspective on my families situation. I have two siblings and one is a freshman in college (state university) but we do have very little savings.
How do you know they’re need based and not merit based grants? The schools would have to have enormous endowments to give $35k/year to every family with a ~$200k income. If that’s the case, I would think the admit rate must be really low. It doesn’t matter if a college offers great aid for your income level if your kid doesn’t get admitted there.
As long as the sibling is in a college (not a service academy) many schools do not ask what the tuition is or how much the family is paying, just that there is another in school. Both my kids got credit for having a sibling in college at the same time. One receives a full ride, but how much she receives in not a question on the FAFSA, just whether a sibling is in school.
Compare to how Princeton explains how to use its net price calculator for divorced parent situations (note: Princeton policies differ from Cornell’s policies, but the point is that Princeton is up front about them): https://swebapps.princeton.edu/FinAid/finaid_form.pl