@Labufadora - Yes, please do PM me!!
I would add too, since distance is a sticking point, just in case OP isn’t aware, that most schools offer charter bus rides to both NYC, Boston and major airports. It’s not for everyone, but it is available. My daughter is at NMH which is a 4 hour drive from our home and we pick her up in Lincoln Center, hockey stick in hand, and only need to travel to campus 3x a year or so. That said, we miss most all of her games - and she had a hat trick this week! That part stinks.
And, the Gunnery wins the NESPAC Elite 8 Championship!!! Go Highlanders!