<p>OP,</p>
<p>Can I ask why Harvard is your top choice? Do they have a particular program that the others don’t have?</p>
<p>I’ll share my (very limited) experience as the parent of a (conservative) Christian who applied to several Ivies.</p>
<p>My pastor and his wife graduated from Princeton many years ago. They consider it, like most colleges, to be a secular and “dark” campus wherein you, as a follower of Christ, can shine your light. There is an excellent Christian support group that I’m familiar with, Princeton Evangelical Fellowship, that was one of several main draws for my son to apply to Princeton. The other draw to Princeton was their outstanding math and physics programs.</p>
<p>We visited U Penn and Princeton during his junior year together and then he was flown in to visit Princeton during his senior year after he was accepted. I thought it was a lovely school and my son has a couple of very nice friends there who showed us around. We also were able to worship with PEF (Princeton Evangelical Fellowship) which was a great experience.</p>
<p>On my son’s trip by himself, he also met up with the PEF. On that trip, he got a little different view and felt that most of the clubs he saw “advertised” were very liberal. He also didn’t meet too many other STEM kids, and ultimately, he felt that’s what he wanted.</p>
<p>He really liked U Penn on our visit and we have a young Christian friend there who is thriving. It, like Princeton, is liberal, but there are good churches and support groups on campus.</p>
<p>My son was not interested at all in Harvard. To us, it seemed very, very liberal and less friendly to Christians. However, I know there’s plenty of Christian support on campus, or so I’m to understand.</p>
<p>My son chose to attend MIT. MIT (and Mass.) is liberal, as well, but my son has found great support and lots of friends in the Campus Crusade for Christ group there, and he’s very active in the group and in his dorm. And, he has a lot of non-Christian friends, as well. So far it’s been a positive experience.</p>
<p>I don’t know if that helps but I would encourage you to contact Christian groups at the schools you are applying to. This issue was the most important to me, as a Christian mom, much more important than any programs or school my son would attend, so I was very involved in making sure that my son had a “home” away from home <em>before</em> he set foot on campus. It was also really important to have Christian adults in his life, so that he would have some accountability.</p>
<p>As a Christian, you will be swimming against the cultural current, but may God give you the grace, courage, and strength to love those precious kids around you just as He loved us first who were dead in our transgressions and made alive in Christ.</p>
<p>I wish you well!</p>