<p>I’m just going to say it’s highly unlikely we’ll visit any schools. Finances don’t allow. And to my way of thinking, whether or not you’ll be “happy” at a given school is largely a matter of attitude. Happiness comes from within to a great extent and can prevail given the most dreadful set of external circumstances and likewise be impossible to attain given the most advantageous. I’m not saying happy circumstances don’t make it easier to be happy, but they’re certainly no guarantee.</p>
<p>So my point is, if your D already has a lackluster attitude about her safety schools, you definitely need to keep looking.</p>