<p>To answer your question, college is something that family is supposed to prepare for from the moment they know they are having a child. Something should be put away for children. The baptism, birthday money each year, and whatever can be tucked away. Kids should be encouraged to save, too for college. My parents were low -middle income, and we saved, I saved, so that there was a nest egg, not just for college, but as send off money. Even if a kid doesn’t go to college or doesn’t need the money for colllege, it makes for a nice piece of change to buy a car, deposit for an apartment, start up expenses for other things. I had a couple of thousand in savings bonds which in my day was a standard gift, prize, savings vehicle for kids. So savings is one compent of the college plan. </p>
<p>I always say past, present and future income from parents and kids. THe past component is comprised of the savings, the present is by scrimping that one has to do do pay for college in the present and what both you and parents should be scraping out of the current income. Kids who know finances are going to be an issue should get weekend jobs starting second term senior year of high school and work summers, and a few hours during the school year too. Many kids can come up with $1-5K a year that way, which is a nice hunk of change. And there is some savings in having a kid living away in terms of decrease in food, utilities, gas, maybe car insurance that parents can put away. When my kids are out of the house, my milk and OJ bill goes down drastically. </p>
<p>And then there are the loans. The more you can do with past and present, the less you have to do with future payments which should not be more than what either past and present are since it only gets harder to pay as one gets older as a parent if one has not done such a great job in savings and setting oneself up for old age, and for students, the need list just grows when you graduate and loans are monkeys on your back bashing you on the head. As a freshman, you can borrow $5500 on your own in most situations through Stafford loans, and for cash flow managements, it’s not so terrible for your parents to borrow some money to stretch the time period to pay for your college to ten years rather than 4. If this is planned and manageable, no problem. If doing this with your back against the wall because you didn’t save anything and you aren’t making it on present income, not a good idea. A very bad one, in fact. </p>
<p>Also, look for less expensive colleges, and where you have a shot at some merit money. Full priced privates, are sadly (to me) off of our kids lists. We just can’t manage the $60K cost. With about $20K merit, we can talk, Most OOS publics, are possible. We can swing all the in state publics and commutable privates most of the time. </p>
<p>So that’s how one pays for college.</p>