Older child ED to match, accepted
Younger child went through application season last year:
3 Reaches (1 ED, 2 RD) (denied all)
4 Matches (accepted 3, denied 4th)
2 Safeties (accepted 1, waitlisted the other)
There was a 10th school on the original list for which the app was started but dropped as the process unfolded. It didn’t add anything specific to the list and as the reality of the application process played out, it felt like writing that application would undermine the effort on others.
I like the term “high” matches used earlier in this thread because that is a good characterization of 3/4 matches our student pursued–kid was in the mid-high range for stats for these schools but these matches were all acceptance rates 15-35%. Was denied from the “reachiest.”
Lessons learned:
Reaches were poorly differentiated–only one (ED option) was genuinely interesting to our student. The others were fits on paper only–were in the region desired, strong in the relevant major, but not a good cultural fit. Had there been an admission offered to one of those, not sure in retrospect if it would have felt celebratory.
1 out of 2 was a true safety. The other, which by the stats, should have been an obvious safety, is an up and coming specialized school that takes a specific profile of student; our kid wasn’t really that–and had no interest in trying to get off that wait list. Could have saved the application fee, lol.
The “high” match that became the final choice was actually probably a reach based on, as noted above, its selectivity. As the acceptances came in, it was a nail biter, as it was the 2nd to last school to notify, and as the other decisions came in, was becoming the clear favorite.
Our kid is not a gregarious soul who would easily acclimate anywhere, so fit was key – but at the same time, our student wasn’t heavily invested in exploring a wide range of options or building a longer list of schools to ensure the final fit was right. In the end, was very lucky to be admitted to an excellent college that is truly ideal. But, it could have gone the other way–admitted to one that was similar in profile academically but not the greatest fit.
I cannot emphasize fit enough, having sent 2 to college. Our oldest hit the fit jackpot with ED choice; our youngest also ultimately did so, but not because of a superior list building strategy, lol. My key advice to parents undergoing the process now is to take this aspect --fit–very seriously. Reaches are lovely; aspirations are admirable. We want the best for our kids. But scrutinize the list to ensure the kid has options that are truly energizing for your student once the acceptances come in, and the best way to maximize your chances are to deeply consider which schools go on the match list and then ensure that the rest of the list isn’t so long that the quality of applications to the matches suffers. If I had a third child, I would focus much more heavily on identifying a wider range of true matches.
Another thing we’d do differently with hypothetical kid #3 is add an application to a safety school with rolling admissions prior to submitting an ED application (not sure if this timing is actually workable but I think so?) so that an acceptance comes in before an ED is denied/deferred. That ED can be a real rough patch if it was an unrealized “dream.” Better that the first letter that comes in is a “yes” as it sets a positive tone for the rest of the cycle.
So: we didn’t do it this way, but here’s my advice
Reach: 2 max
Match: 3 “high” matches and 2 others
Safety (do your research so they are real): 2
If finances are not a barrier, ED to the most desirable reach