TSAO technically cannot recruit. Some attend games that are close by the schools but usually they accept videos and look online for stats. We had two TSAO coaches attend games and communicate afterwards. Much to our surprise. Questions to ask include will you support with admissions.? Will he or she be on varsity? The most difficult question is when they ask if you will come if accepted. Are we your first choice? If you are asking for financial aid you have much more latitude. You can first choice a school but if you get more money elsewhere no one can fault you for that decision.