In no particular order, best way to avoid the RMD issue is to have your IRAs in Roth IRAs. You then also avoid all taxes. You can convert some or all of your money when you want. Not having an RMD is a huge tax savings as well as having the compounding be tax free.
As for social security, my spouse is 62 next week and eligible for early SS then. I’m 52 so I have a while. If you can afford to wait, the school of thought is usually to wait as long as possible for the maximum benefit and to use your savings up first. Reason being is because if you wait until you’re 70 then it’s that much more per month you will have for the rest of your life. If you have set up an account online at ssa.gov you can see your social security statement. Since my husband is older than me and we will want two checks as long as possible, it won’t make sense for me to wait until I’m 70 and he’s 80 so we will probably take mine when I’m 62 and he’s 72. There is a nominal amount of annual increase for social security that’s not worth writing home about. Don’t forget part of your social security is also going to be taxable and at 65 you’ll have to sign up for medicare which will also reduce it. If you or your spouse has any sort of pension, that will also reduce your social security so make sure you look into the windfall provision as well.
My goal is to have all of my retirement assets converted to tax free vehicles before I would fall into any sort of RMD circumstance so that I’m not required to take them out ever and so I don’t have to pay taxes on them ever down the line. I’m still heavily invested in equities in my HSA, my Roth IRA and regular brokerage accounts that I manage myself and I have my traditional IRAs, 401k and SEP IRA’s in Index Funds or other Funds. The equities have increased more than 100% this year so now I’m in a quandry that I would like to sell some stuff off now but I’m definitely not interested in paying huge capital gains. I fully expect a lot of people selling off next Monday as I will be as well with some things and hold on for most others.
As for annual draw, I don’t have any amount yet as I am not an empty nester and until I have a true sense of that number, I have no clue what it will really cost to live. Plus my husband who is semi retired still makes money and I still work and I don’t think either one of us is planning to stop anytime soon.
Long term care policies are a waste of money unless you buy it very young. Otherwise the cost is not worth it. My biggest cost I feel will be travel most likely and probably paying for insurance while my husband is on medicare and I am on an expensive group policy and high deductible. I have 3 of my 4 kids in college or living in 3 different states than I live in, and the likelihood that my 4th (hs senior) going to a different state too, so lots of places to visit, but lots of expenses too. I also plan to be charitable but also generous with my family so that will probably be costly. I’ve always been very frugal and been called a miser by one of my parents, but that doesn’t mean I don’t like nice things.
I don’t really have a bucket list, but my husband would travel 365 days a year if he could. When we kick covid’s butt and my last one is off to college then I can think about rebooking a trip that was scheduled and cancelled, but for now, just have to forge ahead and taking care of everyone else and making sure they’re safe. I’m also still paying for the bulk of 3 college educations while teaching my kids to be fiscally responsible at the same time!
To me one can never have enough for retirement. Is $5m enough, is $10m? I don’t think I will ever feel like I have enough and with interest rates at 1% I don’t even feel comfortable knowing that one can just sit with money in the bank living off interest. As someone else said, this is one other nice thing about Roth IRA and putting those stocks in dividend stocks. You can earn a nice dividend yield on blue chip stocks that more than make up for crap interest rates right now as long as you don’t need the principal and again, you don’t need to pay the taxes.
Also, with interest rates so low, I currently keep a lot of cash in tax exempt money markets since after taxes the taxable ones actually are a lower tax rate.