<p>“As for the SBs, a major difference in their thinking is that they do not want to be like men, do not aspire to be like men. and do not see themselves in competition with men. They embrace that fact that they are female and different than men and want to do different things.”</p>
<p>Then why are they at Princeton, again? Why not just go to the local comm college and not worry their pretty little heads? </p>
<p>“According to your logic, I was a big-time sexist when I was dating because I darn sure was not looking for an equal. I was looking for a female who could have babies, something I could not do, as a male. And I was also a misogynist I guess because I was looking for a female who wanted to have kids before age 30 because I knew the stats of the difficulty having kids and the rise in Downs Syndrome and other genetic diseases after age 30.”</p>
<p>Nothing wrong with looking for someone to raise a family with. But how did you know they could physically bear children? Did you require a note from their ob-gyn? </p>
<p>A male friend of mine met and fell in love with a woman who had had a hysterectomy in her early twenties for medical reasons. Should he have dumped her since she couldn’t bear kids? </p>
<p>“There is a reason there are different doctors for men and women. And that difference is vast enough that treating women is a wholly separate medical speciality. When such physical differences exist to the point that a specialized doctor must be created, it defies logic to think that nothing else different in existence falls out from that. That is all I am talking about here.”</p>
<p>Yes, I’m aware. That’s what my H does for a living. Are you suggesting, therefore, that (for example) women shouldn’t be given leadership positions because women in the aggregate are less suited for them? </p>
<p>“Maybe this is why feminism equals birth control and can’t seem to get out of that gear and get to anything of substance”</p>
<p>Stranger and stranger. What’s wrong with birth control? Do you think these SB aren’t quite careful to use birth control? Indeed,I’d imagine that’s part of the agreement. Neither side here is looking for kids.</p>
<p>Usually one of the reasons an older person will date a much younger one is to feel young.</p>
<p>Not only does Princeton meet need, they also do not take credit cards for tuition, room and board payments so the young woman in the story was using the SD’s credit card to support her desired lifestyle not pay for school. </p>
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<p>I hope you were a young stud when you were shopping for a childbearing woman. Research has revealed a higher risk of some mental health and genetic abnormalities in children of older fathers </p>
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<p>In other words, they don’t want their daughters to be with s*<em>tty men like themselves (and there are two different sets of letters that you can substitute for the *</em>.)</p>
<p><em>hi</em>** ?
<em>no</em>** ?
<em>lu</em>** ?
<em>mu</em>** ?
<em>po</em>** ?</p>
<p>which two?</p>
<p>Good job, GMT!</p>
<p>That should be an SAT critical reading question, lol.</p>
<p>Anyway there is nothing wrong with availing yourself of services that you wouldn’t want your kids to be providing. Maybe you don’t want your kid to be a fast food cook or a taxi driver, but you still eat at McDonald’s (from time to time) or take a cab.</p>
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<p>The reason there’s less “drama” is the power differential between employer and employee. It’s a job for one side of the equation.</p>
<p>These articles come up with regularity. The people who run the websites are glad to talk to the press. It’s free advertising. Come along, little girl, we need new product to push…</p>
<p>An antiquated term for the sugar babies would perhaps be dollymop. Which predates feminism. As do the terms “old goat,” and “dirty old man.”</p>
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Thats ridiculous, sorghum. Plenty of our kids worked in what you might consider “menial” jobs. DS#2 works in fast food and retail for almost 2 years in HS. Very honorable and respectable. On the other hand, if I had daughters, I would not want them to be a yobo/mistress or any other personally disrespectful job. There is a large difference between working in a lower pay position and selling ones body. For heavens sake.</p>
<p>I don’t mind what people do if they want to earn money, but let’s not fool ourselves with so many fancy terms. I believe for the young thing, male or female, if you want to do this, make sure you up the ante. For the older paying person, let’s not kid ourselves, it is what it is.</p>
<p>I don’t think it needs much analysis to explain why creepy old guys want to have sex with attractive young women. Guys who are rich enough can find somebody willing to do this. This has been the case since time immemorial. The idea that feminism has anything to do with it makes me shake my head in dismay.</p>
<p>One of my best friends went through a hideous divorce after she found out that her husband had been the sugar daddy for another woman for almost 10 years. He put her through college and law school by diverting funds from his law practice, their home equity and the kids’ college accounts. For a while I didn’t think my friend would live through it, but she did, althought she is a very different person now. He still lives with the sugar baby, although she is in her late 20s now and a practicing lawyer.</p>
<p>Suppose an old guy, sitting in the park one day, happens to engage in conversation with an attractive young lady fully his equal in wealth and intelligence; they inexplicably like each and mutually choose to enter into a relationship.</p>
<p>Is he still a “creepy old guy” for wanting to have sex with an attractive young woman? Are young women allowed any agency or choice at all in deciding for themselves what they want without scorn?</p>
<p>This thread has gone way past bashing prostitution, and into bashing all older guys (old farts, creeps, etc.) based on who they are attracted to. </p>
<p>I’ll make an exception for the old farts like Brad Pitt and George Clooney. I think they are both at least 50, is that old enough to be creepy?</p>
<p>This creepy old guy sitting in a park and striking up conversation with an attractive woman is not doing it for her intellectual prowess or wealth. She does not wear her IQ score or net worth emblazoned across her chest, and thats not why he is staring at it. </p>