<p>She needs to discuss costs up front or you're not obliged to pay (IMO). You stated you contacted her just to find out 'what she does' - this isn't a consultation - it's a description of the services she offers and should include what the costs will be.</p>
<p>You said she's a slow-talker. This isn't likely to change - it's just the way she speaks.</p>
<p>From your description, she doesn't sound like a good business-person (not covering costs up front) and isn't compatible with you (slow-talker, doesn't listen to you, isn't interactive).</p>
<p>I recommend foregoing a paid counselor altogether (you indicated you were quite informed from CC lurking) or finding another one.</p>