As the other posters have responded, what seems like these good questions break down under scrutiny because the value of college and the question of which college is better than another can be so hard to measure. Especially if you place the value at something we all hope for our kids, but is hard to measure - thriving in life and being happy.
Take Gallup’s recent survey results http://www.gallup.com/opinion/gallup/182312/college-worth-depends.aspx
From a massive Gallup study of 30,000 college graduates in the U.S. – it measured the degree to which graduates were engaged in their work and thriving in their purpose, social, financial, community and physical well-being
Graduates who strongly agree they had the following six experiences in college – which Gallup refers to as the “Big Six” – perform markedly better on every measure of long-term success compared with graduates who missed the mark on these experiences:
- a professor who made them excited about learning
- professors who cared about them as a person
- a mentor who encouraged them to pursue their goals and dreams
- worked on a long-term project
- had a job or internship where they applied what they were learning
- were extremely involved in extra-curricular activities
Who wouldn’t want this for their child? If you go to the story, you’ll see the vast majority of graduates reporting they did not have most of these experiences (some not having any!). And we all know (and now we have some research to help back it up) that these things are likely important. In fact, I have read multiple other research studies supporting all of these that were listed (which is probably why they asked them).
Finally, other research has shown that it really isn’t that important where the child goes to college, it’s what they put into it and what they get out of the experience. Students at large state U’s can be just as successful and (more importantly) just as happy with life as those kids who get to the Ivies.
So yes, some schools are definitely better than others, and there are differences between the schools. But in reality, there are probably a multitude of schools that could provide a similar education and experience for each student at mostly similar price ranges.
Then the question boils down to, what can I do as a parent (or as the student) to ensure that I have all or most of those 6 experiences?
Is there really anything you can do, or does it boil down to a determined student + luck (lucky to find a helpful professor and mentor, lucky to find a great internship, because not all internships are created equal)?