How/Why do you stay motivated?

<p>Yeah, the same thing happened to me when I took a year off from school. So now I just don’t study. But when I get back to school I’ll want to study because</p>

<p>a) Math is awesome and beautiful when you actually understand it and bores me to tears when I don’t, so I might as well actually study so I can get something out of my classes. It’s a really painful experience, being able to understand a subject just enough that you know it’s the most beautiful thing you’ve ever studied, but knowing most of it is beyond you because you’re depressed and don’t feel like working anymore.</p>

<p>b) Back in middle school I used to do a lot of math and not understand it and it was the worst thing ever, I was memorizing formulas and blindly guessing and stabbing in the dark. And understanding things is a lot more fun. I never want to go back to not understanding again. You feel powerless, like someone replaced your legs with metal rods and you can’t walk.</p>

<p>c) If I don’t learn stuff well now, I won’t even have that choice later because the stuff you learn in freshman year is fundamental and everything else builds on it. My sister failed out of grad school because she didn’t learn her high school stuff well. I’ll never forget the three-hour phone conversations she had with our dad begging him to help her with homework neither of them could do, but at least my dad knew the chain rule so he was better off than she was</p>

<p>d) Well at Caltech everyone else studies, so it’s kind of a perverted sort of peer pressure. Being incompetent is like being worthless.</p>

<p>e) I need a 3.5 gpa to not lose my scholarship</p>

<p>Academics may not be the purpose of human life, but I figure if I enjoy them and I’m good at them I might as well not let myself go.</p>

<p>not to mention there would be a lot more gold diggers. everyone knows that’s the easiest way for a woman to make money, DUH.</p>

<p>:p</p>

<p>my only motivation is my parents promised me a car if i stay aboce a 3.4 by the end of this school year
and in all honesty…for me its soooo hard</p>

<p>lockln, i’m not an overachiever (i try to do my best at everything) and i get lazy at times only because i can’t manage my time and for once i just want to sit, watch tv and do absolutely nothing</p>

<p>I’ve thought like that several times over & over before.
Instead, my question always comes out to be, “What’s really the point to life?” & I feel everything’s against me sometimes. I wonder, why go to school & do good, waste my energy? Why enjoy the pleasures, when they simply fade. What’s all the point to this? I feel like a Barbie doll or like I’m living in some fantasy world. 'cuz it could be easily taken away anytime & I could be gone anytime. So then, when that happens, why should I care? I’m not even a being anymore without any thought or existence.</p>

<p>Oh well, I’ve been busy lately, so these thoughts have really dwindled down. I don’t know why I live like this, but I just go on each day with a new goal. I’m doing good in school-- 'cuz I guess to have a “better” life in the future. Better opportunities. Fulfill my “dreams” I suppose.</p>

<p>Life is good, life sucks sometimes.</p>