Before I even start, I ask that you PLEASE read this all the way through before commenting because I certainly don’t want anybody to get the wrong idea. I understand that there are a plethora of reasons someone’s prep school application might be rejected, this is just my opinion after thinking on the issue awhile. I really encourage people to reply because I want to hear other opinions on this as its a bit controversial.
So, I am a 10th grade female student and recently I my application to Exeter was rejected and i’ll admit I was pretty bummed out at first, but I recovered quickly and am working to hopefully apply again for next year Life goes on, after all. Despite this, however, I read an article that recently struck a cord with me and really made me wonder…WHY was I rejected?
The article I read was concerning diversity quotas in schools and how some people are suffering because of them. For those who don’t know, diversity quotas are basically racial demographics that schools meet–by accepting more and less of certain races–in order to get funding or boast a “highly diverse” school. This is such a controversial and wide-spread issue that there have been huge lawsuits about it…
Now, before I go farther, let me say right away that I love diversity and am learning 3 languages right now (French, Korean, Japanese) and the whole reason I applied to Exeter was to experience the amazing diversity of people and ideas it so greatly touted. I was pretty excited about meeting people from all different walks of life, and maybe even banding together for projects that would make a difference. I thought the whole situation was great. I still do in fact—However, after I was rejected–and read this article and a few others—I wondered if I possibly didn’t make it into Exeter because i’m white.
Yes!! It sounds stupid, which is why I’ve reflected about this for a long time to make sure I wasn’t being asinine. But the more I researched, the more it made sense. It turns out schools will specifically choose those who are a certain ethnicity (often those of Hispanic or African American descent) over White or Asian applicants. And that’s awful!! I feel like if all applicants put in a huge effort and try their best, they should all have a chance to make it in, regardless of ethnicity, skin color, sexual orientation, gender, country of origin–it’s definatly the personality and work ethic that’s important!!!
I’m sure all applicants did their best work in applying for Exeter—and the ones who were accepted I’m positive deserved it (coming from someone who dealt with the workload…it takes perseverance!)—But since Exeter touts their diversity so much all over their school website and recruit all over the world—it makes their decision questionable to me. I had great grades, a great SSAT score, and an awesome interview, so I don’t see why I wouldn’t be accepted unless 1) They were extremely low on space for new applicants, or 2) The diversity quota. (Just to let you guys know for the sake of knowing the whole situation, i’m white, female, and do not identify as anything on the LGBT spectrum, so i’m pretty average statistically speaking)
I really want to discuss this with people…what’s your experience applying to Exeter or other prep schools that boast high diversity? Do you feel like the same thing may have happened to you that I believe happened to me? What have you observed in applying that may put you at a disadvantage due to your ethnicity? Do you really believe schools don’t discriminate on the basis of gender, ethnicity/race, or sex? Are diversity quotas really fair-- or just another form of racism?
I also really encourage people to research issues involving diversity quotas as well and not just listen to me and leave it at that. This is defiantly something more people should know about, no matter what stance you take on this. Anything directly involving education affects everyone and is a completely valid concern