<p>“I was mostly qualified, though I guess just not qualified enough”</p>
<p>You may have been sufficiently qualified, but your categories, whatever they were, were already filled.</p>
<p>“and not what the admissions departments wants you to think you are up against”</p>
<p>I, for one, don’t share this cynicism; I don’t think adcoms “want” anyone to think any particular thing. But the book is truly excellent, and tells the story.</p>
<p>man, rejection is gods way of protecting you. If you take that as a given, it doesnt seem so bad. Im sure you’ll go to a great school and in a few months this will be a blip on the radar</p>
<p>Schools like Penn get something like 30,000 applications each year, and at least HALF are qualified enough-so there’s no way every qualified kid can get in. My second (of four) kids had a 2360, 17 AP tests, national-level awards in music and science, etc.-and did not get accepted to three Ivies including Penn (he’s happy at MIT!). My third child loves Penn and applied ED with similar accomplishments but of course no guarantee of acceptance-so she applied to several other places RD, but only other schools she’d clearly also be happy at, includung two safeties. “Love thy safeties” is a great mantra!</p>