What would I say to: “I largely got in based on inherited [legacy and/or development] merit”?"
“Face it, you don’t know why you got in. But you completed an app like everyone else and are as legit as the next kid.”
Afaiac, the mission is more than “top sports competitiveness,” not sure any schools claim that. It does add to the atmosphere. Sports players are valued for the commitment, not just hours, but following the adult expectations, etc.
But: same as many other pursuits we could name. These others don’t get coach or mentor pull. It’s true some very bright physics or music students can get faculty endorsement But not the same scheme where someone puts them on a “want” list and gets them in, regardless of other missions of the school.