<p>man just read some of the other threads (wes vs vassar vs chicago, “ask anything about student life”, etc). that would be a good place to start finding out about social life. </p>
<p>so you probably won’t get in to either columbia or stanford, back in the day i was waitlisted at various ivies too, so you’re probably looking at wes vs berkeley vs tufts</p>
<p>In relation to us versus Tufts, well, the student bodies are very different. More on this in preceding threads. </p>
<p>Us vs. Berkeley…Don’t know much about it, but class sizes would seem to come in to play </p>
<p>there’s barely anything to do in middletown; apart from Bar Night on Wednesday (which is mainly attended by seniors) there isn’t any nightlife in town. i mean there’s a couple restaurants and a movie theater but nothing in the way of clubs or concert venues. </p>
<p>nobody that I know explores the surrounding country much either ; there’s not a great deal to do in central CT. </p>
<p>thus social life centers around whatever there is to do on campus. That can be a good and a bad thing. </p>
<p>Bad: Not New York City (no urban center with associated cultural/entertainment venues nearby); social environment = pretty cliquey (it’s hard to just go to random parties and have fun because most people at parties seem to already know each other; this is a problem at all small schools though)</p>
<p>Good: Seeing roughly the same people around at places - you’re not lost in a sea of anonymous human beings; lots to do on campus usually, easy to find parties to go to; lots of bands/music acts come to play at eclectic/psi u/bacon (well, girl talk), and some of them are excellent</p>
<p>It’s not bad, but if you’re from a big city, I can’t help but think that it would be excruciatingly painful to spend 6 months a year at Wesleyan. Then again I would say that about all the NESCAC schools, Dartmouth, Cornell, etc…any college out in the country. So Wesleyan’s isolation is not particularly bad; in fact there seems to be more to do here on a regular basis than at Bowdoin, where I overnighted and almost went.</p>