<p>I know, in the greater scheme of things, this too shall pass. If my son goes to one of the other schools he's been accepted to, or if he gets accepted to Michigan and decides to go there and has a good experience, then all of this will be forgotten in short order.</p>
<p>I don't mean to turn this into a rant against Michigan. I just meant to say something that maybe others were thinking but possibly hadn't really come right out and said, and in that way commiserate a little with others in the same boat. </p>
<p>And I appreciate what GoBlue81 said about ED at other schools, and about Michigan being a victim of their own good intentions. It does seem like they got in over their head with this.</p>
<p>And, I don't mean to make this into a bigger deal than it is. Things happen. I get it. But I'm 51 years old. I'm not a kid who's worked hard to get good grades in the hopes of getting into a good school, believed in a school's promises, and in good faith done everything the school asked, only to have the school say, in effect, "Never mind. We didn't mean it."</p>
<p>It's just that Michigan seems to have handled this poorly. They way they've gone about it comes across as a bit shady. And it's sad that the kids full of hope get the bad end of the deal when it didn't have to happen at all. </p>
<p>In the talk we heard when we visited, and on the school's web site, and in mailings we received, Michigan touts Early Response as a major feature of their admissions approach. Even today, their web site says, in bold print at the top, "Complete your application by October 31st. Receive a decision by December 21st." </p>
<p>University</a> of Michigan - Office of Undergraduate Admissions</p>
<p>The regular sized font on the same web page says "For all students whose completed1 applications are received by October 31st, we will guarantee that a decision2 will be released by December 21st. "</p>
<p>"Decision." "Guarantee." Those a strong words for a hopeful 17 year old.</p>
<p>Notice the "1" and the "2" in the quote? On the web page those are superscript numbers, like footnote numbers in a term paper. The "2" refers to a note at the very bottom of the page that says "Decisions will include admit, defer, and deny. Students who are deferred will receive a final decision by early April."</p>
<p>So yeah, technically, they were up front about it, but only in the fine print. </p>
<p>It just seems so, I don't know, car salesman - ish on the part of the school to build up the kids' hopes with the big sales banners and promise a decision by a certain date, only to say that what it decided was not to decide...yet. If that's what it's going to do, then why bother? What's the point? Why the big sales pitch? It makes the whole Early Response thing seem like an empty gimmick; a broken promise. If that's all it's going to be then don't make the promise in the first place, or at least don't play it up so much.</p>
<p>As another parent said somewhere else on College Confidential, maybe sometimes we suffer for the kids more than they actually suffer themselves. In a week or two this will probably be a fading memory, and by move-in date at whichever school my son ends up going to it will probably be forgotten completely. </p>
<p>What I do know is that my kid will go to a great school and have a great time and get a great education. The only thing I don't know, yet, is which school it will be.</p>
<p>Anyway, I've said my piece (I think). Thanks for listening.</p>