What is backward? The entire idea that you (the parents) don’t know how much any given college is going to cost until your child is accepted there.
I’ve been thinking about this all day (long commute, boring lecture class, lots of time to churn it over in my head).
So many of the problems with understanding how much a college is going to cost FOR YOU stem from the fact that you simply don’t know until you go through the entire rigamarole of Fafsa, CSS, your kid writing endless essays, applying for scholarships, waiting waiting waiting.
THEN the school tells you how much it thinks you should pay after you’re already emotionally and financially in bed with them (so to speak).
What if you could run a price calculator at any school you wanted that told you EXACTLY how much you would pay for the next for years on the assumption that you kid was accepted? And this number was guaranteed.
You could even make it a Common App style model where you put in all the information at the get go on one site (kid’s grades, your income, etc), and then any time your kid says “I’d like to go to Duke” you can push the button for Duke and Duke will say, hello, for you it will be $70k/year.
Black and white. No piecrust promises, no broken dreams. That’s your number.
And you could do this with as many colleges as you want, before your kid applies. Hey look, New College of Florida says it’s 25k all in for us-that one stays on the list of schools to apply to (this is metaphorical, of course).
You could even run a sort that shows you the colleges sorted from least to most expensive for you, and then choose based on your comfort level.
Do you think it would change things to know upfront before you kid even applies exactly how expensive a school would be for you for four years?