I want to go back to school but...

Applying to College
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Hi guys! I would appreciate if you can answer some of my questions.

I’m 21 years old and I wish to go to college. However, I am quite scared due to many factors: bad gpa in high school, lack of support in the family, and my abilities.

I didn’t do very well in high school. I was addicted to online gaming and didn’t pay enough attention to my grades. I failed a few of my classes but I made them up in senior year and graduate with a bad gpa. So, is there is any ways for me to make it up? Or should I apply for a community college instead of regular university? I’m studying for my SAT right now, if I score within the university’s requirement-- would I have a chance of getting in?

Secondly, my parents isn’t very supportive of me going to college at 21. They think I’m too old for school and that my chance passed. Not to mention, the economy right now is horrible, it’s safer route to work than go for college. Their words really sting me, it’s discouraging to me and making me feel like giving up.

And then, there is the learning problems. I’m not very good with English, it’s difficult for me to speak the language and to use the correct grammar & pronunciation. I really adore children so I want to major in early education. I’m also motivated in majoring in bilingual or teaching foreigner English, because I feel there is lack of teachers in this department who understand that foreigner need a foundation first in order to learn properly. But, if I can’t even teach myself properly, I really don’t expect to go around and teach others. Will university prepare me enough for me to educate others or should I try to find another major?

I notice I asked too many questions. Right now, I’m in state of confusion and depression. Most people at my age already graduated and here I am, just starting out. I’m happy that I went out to get some real life experience and matured over the years but still can’t help feeling sad.

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I’m surprised no one has replied! I don’t know what state you’re in, so I can’t get too specific about requirements but that’s nothing you can’t find out yourself.

But you can absolutely go back to school! People go through college at all ages, and 21 is hardly too old.

At this point, going through community college is best to transfer to a state university. Don’t worry about your high school grades and your English proficiency-- when you apply and register for CC classes, you’ll most likely be required to take a placement exam and take an English course for your level and advance from there.<br>
And a college degree will definitely expand your opportunities in ways that continuing without won’t, especially with your kind of goals. Take the general education requirements and find out what the departmental requirements are so you can plan your schedule for the next years to accommodate. Don’t doubt yourself and your goals-- yes you can teach yourself, and others too!