<p>And think of college for an intrinsic value in lieu of an instrumental one. Perhaps this will sound a bit jaded, since I am a lower-middle income HS graduate at Community college, where as most of my high school friends and associates are upper-middle income families at four year schools. The average family income of my school is about $138,000, and it would much higher if we just looked at the "IB" portion of it. Frankly, most of them (mostly the IB crowd) seems to have the need to go to college because of their parents, or to "get rich". Few of them want to try to make the world a better place, in any way possible.</p>
<p>I was in IB classes, but did not test due to money issues (actually being told by my IB counselor to quit, if I wasn't testing), all of my friends/associates were IB diploma, or certificate of merit.</p>
<p>When applications were sent out/received, and decided on, many of my classmates actually felt sorry for themselves, and complained that they weren't attending their "dream school", or only going to our state flagship school. I guess this one part of society has forgotten these luxuries we feel we are entitled to.</p>
<p>Anyway, now that we've all graduated, and most of them are beginning college, I'm beginning to wonder how much college actually matters for kids. I did a poll among my class (local area of 2011, not just my school), asking what three things people were most excited for about college. The most common answers were "Freedom from family", "sleep friendly schedule", and "meeting new people". This is from a list of choices, and "learning new material" was actually the least chosen.</p>
<p>This worries me, as I've always seen college as...ya know...first and foremost, a place to be a scholar, an academic, and have a passion for learning. Oh sure, meeting new people is a great thing, and freedom/sleep are great, just the huge precedence over learning is...disheartening. </p>
<p>My best friend is at a school in Northern California. He's more concerned that his friend has a cool car (a hummer I think), that he's learning to longboard, and the weather, than any of his classes (and, he's in the honors program...somehow). Of course, he's in the "get rich" party.</p>
<p>Now, one might think "Oh sure, of course business people are self centered, and the liberal arts purposes are a bit scattered. But what about STEM kids? They want to make the world a better place" Sadly, not quite. Most of the potential engineers I know want to do the laudable thing and get a BS<MBA<then consult or manage, again, to make money. Even the kids I know who want to be doctors, oh sure, helping people is on their list, but the salary and job security is the thing that attracts them most.</p>
<p>Honestly, if there are any GOOD college kids in this world, who want to help people (by any means), make the world a better place, and care about their education, regardless of WHERE it is, please help me out here. Give me something to hope for.</p>