Hi inquinsitive - I can’t tell you what college admissions officers think of the IB Diploma or whether it really is an admissions plus. I can say, as the parent of a senior who is pursuing the diploma, everything you say about how much work and stress it adds rings so, so true, and your parents’ view to drop it given all the other great, time-consuming things you are doing is the advice we gave our D too.
Here is my two cents worth of opinion, and it may not be worth that. I think you should only do it if it will give you personal satisfaction, and you should not do it for college admissions purposes. You are obviously going to have no shortage of rigor whether you get the diploma or not. If colleges really thought it was a huge plus, they would either say so outright or sophisticated applicants, parents, counselors, etc. would know it is viewed as a huge plus. In our experience, there just isn’t that much college admissions buzz around it, and frankly who knows how many AOs are really that familiar with it or really, truly understand and value how much work it is. And because it is not even earned until basically the summer, after all the IB test scores are back and EE submitted, etc., how much can they even weight it? Heck, with ED, EDII , and EA, the app process is even more front-loaded, and therefore further from when an IB diploma is actually earned. They’ve got your intention to do it and see you have a case load consistent with it, but that’s it. So as much as anything it is an indication you are pushing yourself academically and supplement it with arts, athletics, and service. But they are already going to see that with or without the diploma.
I just don’t think it is going to make or break you at Georgetown or any other college, and you’ll either be in or out of the conversation at schools like that based upon a holistic review GPA, test scores, rigor, and a whole bunch of other things that have nothing to do with the diploma (and in many instances have nothing to do with you, but rather having to do with what the college itself feels it needs for whatever sort of class they are trying to build).
Our D has not taken our advice, and she continues to pursue the diploma. I believe she does it b/c she wants to, and can’t imagine she’d be fighting through it for reasons other than personal satisfaction. So, can totally relate if you chose to go for it, but again my two cents is ONLY if you want to for reasons other than admissions (or at least not only for admissions).
I am not familiar with graduation recognition for being a diploma candidate, and can understand how important that might feel in the moment. I will say, probably the moment after you graduate, and certainly by the time you step on your college campus (and even more certainly when you are old like me), it won’t matter. But if important to you, that’s perfectly understandable.
Mostly inquinsitive, I can empathize with the struggle and the intensity of what you are going through. The diploma is really hard. Take care of yourself mentally and physically. If the diploma quest is compromising your mental or physical health, it is not worth it no matter what. As a parent, I imagine that’s where your parents are coming from.
Take good care!