<p>*But I disagree with the characterization of a graduating student’s debt over “about $25K” as being “major, serious, life-ruining debt.” *</p>
<p>You’re mixing up my sentences. I said that it sounds like the debt would be $50k or more by graduation. I thought my point was clear, but perhaps not.</p>
<p>But, please, correct me if I’m wrong if she’ll only have about $25k debt total by graduation. However,* it sounds like she’ll have $50k+ in debt by graduation.***</p>
<p>Total debt around $25k is manageable for a student. (plus or minus $5k or so).</p>
<p>$50k+ debt would be major, serious, and life-ruining debt for most young grads because there are just too many other expenses to pay for…more than what you may have had to pay for as a youngish grad. While things like cell phones, internet, and cable TV can be considered “luxuries,” most current grads will have those expenses. </p>
<p>Also, healthcare costs are much higher than you were a newish grad in the 80s. When I was a new grad in the 80s, my employer paid for all of my healthcare premiums and my deductible/co-payments were so tiny that they were not a consideration ( Most doctor and Rx co-payments were $0…my annual deductible was $50…max out of pocket was $100…LOL…). Now, a person can expect co-payments like $25-50k and health insurance contributions that run into the thousands. And, max out of pocket can be in the tens of thousands…or even no limit at all! </p>
<p>And, housing costs a lot more these days. Back then, a person’s housing cost could be 25% of income…now it can be 50% or more…so much less to go towards big debt. </p>
<p>Also, I know as a female, I had many more expenses than my male co-workers. Female upkeep is just more expensive nearly any way you slice it unless the woman is really low-maintenance with hair/clothes/make-up/etc…(OMG…those were the days when we had to wear pantyhose (yuck) and just that expense alone cost me about $30 per month). </p>
<p>The $25k debt was in reference to a more workable amount. </p>
<p>Anyway…the OP has now clarified that the debt will be hers (the parent’s), so not the child’s.</p>