<p>Sangchu, I wish I could come up with some better ideas, but a $20K gap when you are already taking on the auto Staffords is a lot. First of all, YOU cannot get anymore in loans without your parents being involved. They either have to cosign which means its on their heads really more than on yours because they are the only reason you’ll be getting the loan so it’ll be their credit and their debt to pay off even if you die,drop out or become disabled. It might make them feel better that your name is on there too, but it’s really hamstringing both you and them. Don’t even know what the interest rates would be for those loans, and for a $100K…ummmm. Read some of Gwgrad’s posts for a reality check of how it feels to owe that kind of money. Also, if you have medical school on the horizon, you do know that you will have to borrow heavily for that. With a brother of college age by then, the chances of any help from your parents there is about nil.</p>
<p>I think you may have already done this, but sit down and talk to them about how much they can pay. Anything? $1K, $2K. When you leave, there will be some reduction in expenses. Can they pull the budget belt tighter and start putting some money away right now into an account so that there will be a pot started? You say that they do not want you to go to community college, but the reality is if they do not show the money now, that’s where you are going. It’s Show Time here. Also, get a job NOW. After school, weekends, summers. Work, work, work where and when you can. Can you defer the UVA decision for a year, and see what you and your parents can save up in that time? Until the money is there, I would not make the commitment because it’s easy to plan, but difficult to actually salt that money away. </p>
<p>You can go to a local school and work part time for a year, and if you keep up the grades, most likely transfer to UVA. I recommend taking out those Stafford loans and stashing them for when you get to UVA because your eligbility does not accumulate for them. What you can do is work starting now and all through this year and 2014, saving every cent you can, getting courses as close to what UVA’s is towards your major, and taking ou that Stafford at the end of 2014 so the interest doesn’t start till then. I would then try to get into UVA for the spring semester. You would have the $5500 stashed of your Stafford, and be entitled to the FULL $6500 for that academic year, which would just about pay for your semester at UVA. The Staffords can all be taken in one semester if it is the second semester of the year, a little known thing about them You will have some money saved from the year and half you 've been working, plus you need to stay on your parents case to keep contributing as you go along, because otherwise they won’t have the money to give you when the time comes. You might just have enough to make it a full go for the next year. Then with the APs and the comm college courses from the first year, you might be able to get out of UVA in 2 1/2 years and at that point can go all out in borrowing. Still a lot of loans but far less than the $100K you are contemplating borrowing. It won’t be an easy go of it at all, but it’s possible. I’ve seen kids do it at various schools. </p>
<p>You can also appeal your award as Charlieschm has suggested, but my feeling is that the gap is really too big to get much more. Do give it a try as you want to start getting to know the fin aid dept there very well. </p>
<p>You can also go to cc for two years and transfer, working and saving both years’ Staffords and go to UVA straight up for tow years. There are a lot of variations to the theme I am considering. Also, if you give it another year, you can consider applying to Old Dominion and other schools where a full ride might be possible. Now you know the situation.</p>
<p>Since UVA does meet full need, yes, they will give you more money if your situation is permanent. But what would that income be? They also tend to go to PROFILE when that happens, and if your parents have any home equity, own a business, etc, the numbers get even dicier, and they still are not going to be able to contribute one red cent if that happens, I think you know that now. There will likely still be a sizeable gap. </p>
<p>I’m truly sorry it has come to this, and I wish I could do something to help you.</p>