<p>I agree, Strick11. Sometimes "the rich" are spoken of as if they were a species - or a minority group that cannot change its skin color, a class no one who isn't born rich can enter. Not everyone who has money in this country is from an "old money" family (although to be fair, I have several friends in old money families, and they are the LEAST pretentious, kindest, most generous people in my circle of friends. Generalization here, but it tends to be the "new money" wannabes that are ostentatious about their wealth. The old money people I know do a great deal of philanthropic good, and not just for operas, museums, and symphonies).</p>
<p>OK, digression done. I know people who were on food stamps in the 70s who now make $300,000 a year. I know families who (GASP!) sail and hence have a good reason to wear the above-maligned Topsiders, who know what it is like to break open a child's piggy bank to buy bread and milk (I am not making that up). If you saw my son, he might appear to you as one of those wealthy "golden boys," but he knows what it is like to have (back in elementary school) kids feel sorry for him because his house was so run down and tiny, or because he didn't go on ski vacations. </p>
<p>And believe me, I would resent snap judgments made about him by appearance alone, as to whether he would have the "understanding" to make laws for - or run a business that employed - the poor. The immediate knee-jerk assumption that white skin/nice clothes/etc. can be equated to total lack of knowledge about the vicissitudes of life is just as bad stereotyping as assuming every black person plays basketball or every Asian is a math whiz.</p>
<p>My point is that this thread sounds like it is being written in the 40s or 50s, when Biff and Muffy dominated at the elite schools and the poor were kept in their place. I also get the feeling that it is assumed their money is inherited. I know a few people like that, but I know far, far more who, as the commercial said, "got their money the old-fashioned way - they earned it."</p>
<p>{Also, there is a LOT of negativity implied regarding the wealthy, but I long ago realized that if nearly half of the country is not paying taxes (I believe the number is around 47%), and a large number is only paying minimal taxes, then it is the people paying taxes to the tune of $60,000 to $100,000 a year (and more) that are paying the lion's share for everything from medicare to Pell grants to anything else you can name that so many Americans benefit from.}</p>
<p>I just believe - even as an old-school Progressive - that there is a lot more social mobility in this country than people think. My family started with nothing: parents had no college; most of my generation went to state schools - though not me - and our children go to top schools. It seems like it is only THIS generation that wants to skip a step and go directly to the Ivies -- NTTAWWT :)</p>
<p>*That said, let me remind people that I am on record on CC for supporting economic diversity, affirmative action, etc. I just want to point out that people with money are not a monolithic group who inherited their wealth and know nothing of real life, and people without money (been there - seriously, not knowing where the next meal was coming from) can enter the coveted "top 5%" of earners. *</p>
<p>* Sorry if this sounds like a rant! It's 2:15 AM, I have been up for 2 days straight dealing with my mom (see the Cafe thread on the Sandwich Generation), and I am not expressing myself as clearly as I'd like. try to be patient and generous :) - much of what I said above, you have to admit, is true!*</p>