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Yes, I have a financial safety (local public school
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Do you mean your state flagship or a school that you can commute to? If it’s a local public, would you be happy to attend there? If not…then it’s not a safety. Many kids say that their local school is their safety and don’t bother to find other financial safeties…and then are later upset that they’re stuck going to that local public.
Since money is an issue, you should have at least 3 financial safeties THAT YOU LIKE. That way if none of the pricey schools work out, you’ll still have a choice. We’re Americans…we like to have choice!
If you mean your state flagship, then are you certain that it’s affordable and that you like it? Are you sure that you have all costs covered? Many assume that their state schools are their safeties because they know that they’ll get admitted, but then they discover that they won’t get much aid…and the parents can’t pay.
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I need more than a couple thousand dollars – more like full/half tuition. Yes, I know how ridiculously competitive that is.
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Once your parents tell you how much they can pay, you’ll know what size merit you’ll need to target.
We see a lot of families here on CC with that income who can only come up with about $15k per year (which would be over $1,200 a month from the family budget if the family doesn’t have a college fund…even this amount may prove difficult).
While $150k is a very strong income, there are many regions of the country where mortgages, property taxes, gov’t taxes, FICA, and other living expenses just eat up that income.
A rule of thumb is: If the parents AND student can contribute about $15k per year (family funds and maybe $5k fed student loan), then that can go towards room, board, fees, & transportation.) Saved summer earnings can cover books and personal expenses. If parents can pay $20k per year, then with a $5k student loan and work-earnings, then maybe a 3/4 tuition merit award could work.
Half tuition scholarships at costly schools are often useless unless the family can nearly full pay. A $20k half-tuition award won’t help if a $150k income family can’t pay the other $40k+ per year…and many can’t.
If your parents are vague about how much they’ll pay…explain to them that their income is highish and most schools will expect them to pay all or nearly all costs. Ask them how much from the monthly family budget can go towards college. $500? $1000? more? less…sometimes putting that way can help unaware parents focus on what is realistic and what isn’t. You may already have a feeling from what you hear in your household. If you’re often hearing that there isn’t much left-over each month…or that they’re trying to fund retirement, then you need to understand that there may not be much help.
Since you’re a junior, there is a good chance your parents will be vague, unless there is a college fund. The key is to not make them feel bad about whatever they can pay. That will just cause more problems later. If they can only pay $6k per year ($500 a month), then with a $5,500 student loan from you and working/saving over the summer and working 8 hours a week during the school year can likely cover room, board, books, fees, misc expenses.
THANKFULLY…you have excellent stats and are a likely NMF…that can pull you out of a bad situation if necessary. Both of my children went to undergrad for practically free because of HUGE merit from their school. We didn’t intend for that to happen; we thought that we would need large merit for Child #1 (strong test-taker) so that we could fund Child #2’s college costs (who we thought that he would be a modest-test-taker…even though he was an A student…he hadn’t been able to test nearly as well as a K thru 10 student…once he was a junior/senior, his test scores surprised us with huge improvement…of course, by then, Child #1 was already in college on huge merit. )
Much of what I wrote in the above para may not have anything to do with you. However, you may have younger siblings that your parents are also concerned about funding for college. Families typically have to consider how much it will take to educate ALL of their kids…even the ones who are “good students,” but won’t likely get much/any merit or need-based aid. Sometimes families get themselves into jams by thinking that they can pay X for each child…but then a later child’s costs are X+…even at the same school. I wrote the above for anyone who might be in a similar situation as we were.
Be aware that YOU can’t borrow much (and shouldn’t borrow much!!)
You can borrow the following amounts:
frosh 5500
soph 6500
jr 7500
sr 7500