Interview Ettiquette

<p>Since there seems to be a number of threads coming up regarding dress and fashion etiquette/protocol during alum interviews, I'll try to answer the question from my perspective. I'm an alum interviewer for Harvard, and while not all alum interviewers may/will agree with everything I write, I hope any advise that I'm offering below at the very least wont put your admissions chances in jeopardy. </p>

<p>--You likely won't be overdressed by wearing a suit or something of comparable formality, no matter the location of the interview. White tie, tailcoat and a top hat and your interviewer may become somewhat concerned. </p>

<p>--With that said, you most likely WILL NOT need to wear anything so formal. If you're being interviewed at a cafe, an alum interviewer's home, the library etc. something nice--a polo shirt with khakis, or a buttoned shirt and nice jeans and a pair of loafers etc. would be fine. Chances are, you may still may better-dressed than your interviewer, esp. if they're on the younger end of the age spectrum. I think I wore jeans, Vans, and a blazer over a t-shirt to one interview last year. </p>

<p>--There are some interview locations where something more formal may make sense, such as a large law firm or a location like the Harvard Club in NY. However, as some other alum interviewers have pointed out, no one will look at you strangely if you don't. The HCNY actually very recently relaxed their dress code, and unless you're having dinner in the main dining hall on weekdays, you can get away with a shirt and nice pants in the most of the club (and jeans on the weekends). Even if you walked in with jeans and sneakers, the staff most likely won't stop you...though I have heard stories of the bartender refusing to serve people at the bar because they were in jeans. Since all of you are underage and can't/don't drink anyway, that's a moot point. </p>

<p>--I HAVE recommended interviewees wear a suit to locations like the HCNY or law firms, not because you have to, but simply it can make you feel more confident, esp if your interviewer is also wearing a suit. But if wearing one makes you feel uncomfortable, or if you have to buy one just for the interview, don't bother. </p>

<p>--So the moral of the story? Dress nicely and don't be a slob. A suit with tie is not necessary in most if not all college interview situations. [substitute 'suit and tie' with comparable dress for ladies] </p>

<p>Anyway, I leave you with this wonderful tidbit from the New York Times style section a few months ago: </p>

<p>"Of course, many club owners are loath to admit they have any dress code at all. They posit that anything works as long as you wear it with confidence. 'There are people who can put together a T-shirt and jeans and sneakers and make it look as good as a three-piece suit,” said Eugene Remm, who oversees Tenjune and SL in the meatpacking district, “and there are people who can wear a three-piece suit and make it look sloppy.'"</p>

<p>I think the same thing applies to college interviews.</p>

<p>I’m an H interviewer too and I agree with everything ^!</p>

<p>Fantastic post! Thank you!</p>

<p>For the women: please understand that appropriate attire does not mean revealing attire. In 20+ years of interviewing, this has only happened once. The young lady appeared to be going to a club that evening – not an HYP interview.</p>

<p>Can you comment on the etiquette if you are meeting at a Starbucks – do you first meet the person, then get a beverage. Offer to get them one?</p>

<p>If the alum is there already and you want a drink, go meet & shake hands and excuse yourself to get a drink. He/She may offer to get one for you. If so, accept politely – but don’t get the $7 super drink. Get a small coffee/tea or soft drink (i.e. the cheap one). If they don’t offer – no sweat – get whatever you want. Get the drink and have a seat.</p>

<p>If the alum is not there before you get there, put your stuff down by an area with relative quiet (i.e not too close to other patrons). Get a drink, then sit and relax. When the alum arrives, stand up to shake hands. Don’t offer to get him/her a drink – he/she is the senior. No need. If he/she wants a drink, he/she will get one.</p>

<p>If you don’t want a drink same thing applies. No need to offer him/her one.</p>

<p>Thanks T26E4, actually I’m a parent, but wasn’t sure what to advise my son. It seems better to me not to be bothering with a drink during an interview, but I doubt Starbucks is wild about people coming in and using their space without spending money.</p>

<p>Jeans at Harvard Club NYC = not a good idea</p>