Yep. Openness, creativity, assertiveness, and empathy are all irreplaceable traits when it comes to work and HR knows it. School measures intelligence and conscientiousness but those only get you so far.
I think one part of this is expectations of “all As”.
I swear to god I have firsthand evidence that getting below a 3.8 won’t kill you.
Too much pressure on yourself to hit all the numbers, however, might. Thinking like you are, @Grijalva480 thinking along your lines is dangerous. You seem to imply that success is attached to almost effortless good grades. What does that mean for those at the bottom of the curve, in the middle of the curve? That it’s not worth doing if you can’t be #1?
I get it, that’s motivating to some people, but only one person can be #1. There are seven billion people on the planet. Thousands, possibly tens of thousands, in your college.
But you are the only one living your life. Nobody else is.
This is not a race against others. It’s a journey. If you run it like a race, you might come in first but you’re missing a hell of a lot. You get the race but you lose the journey.
That kind of black and white thinking isn’t really helpful in real life though.
A university degree is a means to an end. It doesn’t have to be professional training but it certainly should be the START of a journey and not an end in itself. It’s a good bet to get a degree because it gives you fallback options for hard times. You don’t have to get all As for that though. If you study super hard and get Bs or Cs, you can use your degree to get a job that is less letters-focused, and use that to make the world a better place.
That’s what it’s about. Making the world a better place, giving more than you get.
I don’t see what being a fast learner has to do with that. On the contrary, those who have struggled and learned to work hard are often great at solving problems.
If you want to chase the numbers (GPA, scores, salary) by all means do so, but don’t lose sight of why.
These are supposed to be a means to an end, the end being a meaningful life. GPA gets you college, college gets you a job, a job allows you to support your family and community. To build connections and build a better world.
Chasing after that “top score” in and of itself will get you nothing but the score.