<p>Now here is the part that hurts, we don’t buy new cars, eat out, have cabins or boats or snowmobiles ect… People we know who make a lot less always seem to spend so much more???</p>
<p>You can’t look at it that way. People each have their own areas of spending. Some will spend on restaurants, vacations, etc (and some have lots of debt because of it). Some will spend on private school education, or choose to have a parent stay home. Those that spend on vacations and fancy cars wonder how people afford private schools. Everyone has their own areas of justified spending.</p>
<p>If these people are really earning so much less than you and have nicer cars and eat out a lot, then they are either thrifty in OTHER areas (that you’re not) or they’re going into debt.</p>
<p>You’ve mentioned that you have 3 in private schools. I don’t know how much your tuition is, but it could be $20k per year or more for 3 kids. That could be a lot of meals out, a nice vacation, or a new car every couple of years. </p>
<p>Again, I’m not criticizing your decision to have your kids in private school. My own kids went to private K-12 education. BUT IT IS A choice and a LUXURY. The amount of money that we spent on each child’s private education times 2 kids is a LOT OF MONEY. </p>
<p>If you end up spending $60k+ on each child’s private K-12 education (and I’m giving a lowish number since you said that your kids haven’t always been in private schools) then that’s a lot of money that could have been saved for college. </p>
<p>We will not get any aid for our kids due to high income but parents who make less will.</p>
<p>You do NOT understand financial aid if you think that those who make less are going to be getting a lot of financial aid.</p>
<p>Do you understand that most schools do not have ANY financial aid to give other than the small amounts that is given by the federal govt to low income people? </p>
<p>Do you realize that most financial aid is LOANS???</p>
<p>I think you think that some family making $50k per year is getting a free education for their kids at the various schools. They are not. </p>
<p>Even a family with a very low income that qualifies for full federal aid, only gets $5500 in Pell grants, $5500 in student loans, and maybe a couple thou in work study.
How are such people going to pay for $30k tuition plus room and board at a non-elite private college?</p>