I read through some of your previous posts, and you mention that in 2017 you WILL be getting some money “from an elder”.
So why do you need the money now? Take out loans and pay them off when you get your money. You will be in college end of 2015, 2016, 2017, and 2018, graduating in 2019. Your sibling is in college but it is a CC so the EFC will not be adjusted too much.
But, if you insist you must have the money now, that is, to pay the fall tuition:
Meet your grandfather, heck, take him out for lunch and congratulate him on his engagement and wish him luck on his upcoming marriage. Talk to him. Talk to him about what is happening in your life. Talk to him about his life, when he went to college (or if he had to decide not to go to college). Talk to him about where you want to go to school and why you don’t want to go to cheaper schools.
My brother befriended an elderly friend of a friend. Helped him out with various things, like getting work done on a summer house and so on. The guy left him a shore house, which isn’t worth much but the land is worth a million plus. All because my brother put himself out and helped out a guy who wasn’t even a relative.
Make it grandpa’s idea to help you out.
And don’t be upset if he doesn’t offer.
Asking ANYONE for money is a bad idea unless you are asking a bank for a loan.
Being afraid of 75K of loans when you indicate your parents are making 240K per year and your grandfather is “rich” is odd. But on the other hand, knowing that you want to be a writer which is a destitute or millionaire proposition, maybe you should pick schools that are within your understanding of your ability to pay.
My advice is to not worry until you get your acceptances and FA packages. Relax, yeah maybe still have lunch with grandpa because you’ll be going off to school in September, but otherwise, DON’T ask for anything other than a hug and good wishes.
Remember also, if he wants to help you, the best way is to pay some of your tuition directly, that way he knows his money is used for college and you aren’t tempted to do something else with it.