<p>NYU is a great school if you want to live in Manhattan, enjoy NYC. Not deceptive advertising at all. The location is absolutely tops for those who want to come to the Big Apple The name has panache, it IS a good school, good programs, you will be with a lot of smart kids, and likely to get a great education. A lot of people dream of living, going to NYC. Absolutely, it is part of the appeal. Like Sybbie, I get starry eyed walking down the streets of Manhattan Find it hard to believe I am in this life. And that’s coming back from my endodontist! If this is the dream, and for many it is, NYU absolutely is the Holy Grail school for many. One doesn’t romanticise living in Baltimore or most any city as one does NYC.</p>
<p>There is a category of families for whom I have a lot of sympathy. There are parents who truly have no idea about colleges, loans, how things work. Not the family in the Village Voice, but there are parents who speak no English, and rely entirely on their children for information and for what to do. I would have been such a child to my mother who never learned English beyond a rough pidgin to this day, and who would have signed anything for me, for my brothers, she trusted us so. She never wrote a check, used a charge card, did not drive, and was totally dependent on my father until he got sick and died; then we, children, took care of her. I am sure there are parents, student, in that situation, but I’ve yet to see any of them featured. The young woman, Lindsay, in the Village Voice article did not garner my sympathies one bit. Her parents were certainly in the position that they should have known the scoop, my guess is that they did.</p>
<p>I have written on this forum a number of times that an old friend, close friend, and her daughter are in ruinous straits due to student loans the young woman took out with mom co signing, and mom taking PLUS. Both women are wonderful, delightful people. Young woman was a talented, hard working student, the pride and joy of her family, and her mother wanted to it all for her, give her anything and everything. Which the family was pretty much able to do through her childhood. And they continued by taking out loans making an unaffordable college experience possible. She juiced every bit of joy and experience from her years at the college, and graduated with honors, double major, in philosophy and poli sci. No job to be found for a long time, other than part time work that did not pay a living wage. I begged my friend not to sign those loans, go to the instate school that was FREE tuition for the DD and within commutable distance, but nope, only the best for DD, and whatever she wanted.<br>
I guarantee you that the mom and daughter absolutely knew the risks, the pitfalls, etc of their decision, because I personally spelled it out for them. Did no good at all. And now the tune is quite different, and the blame is put on the school, the fin aid office and quotes are attributed that I never heard when all of this was happening, and I did get the earful. So don’t believe all the tales told by some of those now saddled with the loans. Stories have changed in some cases. I know because I was there is some cases. (The school is not NYU, by the way, in my example. NYU is not the only school with this situation).</p>