<p>I really like this site and respect the experience of all of you who have recently been through the college selection and funding process. There is so much here, and I am trying to process it all. I hope it is not bad form just to jump in and ask for fact-based opinions about what we are planning to do.</p>
<p>Our oldest son will be going to college next year. He prefers to stay in the Mid-Atlantic region (particularly the Philly area) but would make an exception for a really sweet deal, which I am rather certain is not going to materialize.</p>
<p>My husband and I know we will be on the hook for the full amount of our children's college, even though our family income was only moderate for much of the past. We refuse to go into gigantic debt for college, and our son does not want to hobble himself for the future by taking on immense undergraduate loans. We both have degrees, and we believe that education is very important. However, we just don't see the value or wisdom in paying $50K+ per year. </p>
<p>Our son wants to major in Finance and has a clear career path and realistic goals. He's met with several of my husband's business contacts who are successfully doing what he hopes to do, and all have told him that a solid education in the practical basics (instead of all theory), meaningful internship experience, and relentless networking will go further than just a degree from an expensive glamour school.</p>
<p>Our son's a good student, but not stellar--SAT: 1430, 3.6 unweighted/4.1 weighted, in the top 20% of his class by just a hair, some ECs with moderate leadership roles but no amazing, breathtaking accomplishments. He attended Johns Hopkins CTY summer programs, so he enjoys an intellectual challenge; however, there's nothing that makes him stand out above the typical applicant at most schools. So, in other words, he's high-mediocre. No place is going to give him any merit aid, correct?</p>
<p>So...based on what we know, we are strongly suggesting to him that he applies only to schools we know we can pay for entirely without going into debt. He's applied to Temple and Drexel, the latter of which is really not on our affordable list. He's planning to apply to Penn State and Pitt as well. He is a good writer and is planning to look for scholarships that are awarded based upon the submission of an essay. It doesn't seem as if he should waste his time on scholarships that will likely go to people with perfect SATs, GPAs, and a carton of newspaper clipping about their EC accomplishments.</p>
<p>Are we being realistic? Is this a sound strategy? Any tweaks you can suggest from experience?</p>