<p>Title kind of says it all; I'm completely and utterly torn. Made an account so that I could ask this question haha. First though, just wanted to make it clear that I understand that as decisions go, I couldn't possibly be any more blessed. Couldn't have wished for a better dilemma, and yet it's still in the process of driving me completely insane. </p>
<p>My major would likely be Biomedical or Chemical, aiming for research and a path towards Neural Engineering, and my acceptances are as follows: </p>
<p>UVA EA, and I'm instate, and for a while, that was that.
But then... W&M as a Monroe Scholar
UDelaware with full tuition, board, food, and research stipend as a Distinguished DuPont Scholar
Boston University with substantial financial aid, honors college, and Presidential Scholarship Drexel with full tuition scholarship due to being a National Merit Finalist. </p>
<p>The decision was tough enough there, probably between UVA and UDelaware, but then I received likely letters from Cornell and Columbia, and Hopkins seems a possibility as well due to Legacy plus the Ivy likely letters.</p>
<p>I'm completely and utterly torn. I have to pay for college basically by myself, parents are in an horrible situation financially, and Delaware seems the obvious choice (ChemE program is fantastic, and free school is free school), but UVA has always been touted to me as the school to be at for a Virginian, and, especially for Biomed, it's hard to go wrong with Cornell, Columbia, or espcially, my parents alma mater, Hopkins. The financial situation means they still have an EFC in the low $20,000's due to my dads high paying job - all going towards debts so we don't enter bankruptcy again, but they can't afford to pay practically any of it. Should we be trying to appeal financial aid stuff? </p>
<p>So:
Is Delaware enough of a step down from UVA that I should be as nervous as its making me?
Are the Ivies enough of a step up from UVA and Delaware that I will realistically spend long years regretting not attending one of them?
Should Drexel or Boston even enter into the equation?
Am I correct in assuming that the lack of engineering at W&M should rule it out despite Monroe Scholar status, and despite it possibly being my favourite school based on campus feel and how I feel I would fit in?</p>
<p>Sorry for the long post, but if anyone has any insights whatsoever, please share them. I'm completely lost here. I know eventually its my personal, and my families choice, but any insight whatsoever would be appreciated.</p>