Now that my D22 is off and running at UCLA, my attention is shifting to my DS26. I’m aware that he has miles to go before we get “serious” about where he will go to college, but I very much enjoyed the research process with my daughter so I’m just getting some ideas together based on my son’s interests and strengths at this point.
My DS is STEM oriented and loves physics, chemistry, math. His dream is to work on space projects. He’s a student of history and geography, too. He’s very intrinsically motivated by acquiring knowledge. English is not an interest but he holds his own and is a thoughtful writer. He’s an exceptional illustrator, takes Japanese online and rock climbs competitively (indoor gym). He has an offbeat style, loves fashion, doesn’t often fit into the “copy-paste” (his words) athletic culture at his high school. He is straight but gels a lot with the lgbtq+ community at his school.
He’s also not someone who does what he’s told—his art grade this semester teetered because he refused to complete assignments as given—he embellished, revised and often turned in what he considered to be a “more interesting” assignment. I guess what I’m saying is that he’s not a teacher pleaser and much of my guidance to him has been to convince him to “play the game of school” so that he can enjoy more choices later. He generally does this and has landed great grades this first semester.
So… I want to explore schools that have strong physics and/or astronomy programs, places that will allow him to keep rock climbing easily (club or easy access to a gym), pursuing Japanese (he will want to study abroad there) and that offer an offbeat, smart kid the flexibility and freedom to do things his way. I don’t think he’d be happy in a social environment dominated by sports or Greek life. He also wants cold weather. He hates heat and loves rain and snow.
Some ideas so far:
Carleton, Wesleyan, Vassar, Colorado College, Whitman, Reed, Bard, possibly Swarthmore or Haverford.
Note—this is just about liberal arts college research for now. He will definitely be applying to our in-state options… I think Berkeley, Davis, Santa Cruz, Cal Poly SLO and Humboldt generally fit his interests and vibe, if not weather preferences. And a few privates, I’m sure. That said, I think he’d thrive in a small LAC so I’m looking for feedback on the schools above (especially physics or astronomy program advice and experience) plus any new ideas across the spectrum of reach, target, safety for a kid like this (assume mostly As in a rigorous, AP heavy curriculum at a top public school in CA).
Thanks so much—I’ve loved being a part of this community and the advice we’ve gotten over the last year or so.