<p>To be the beneficiary of such largesse and support is humbling. Thank you, folks. Let me take a minute to respond to and thank those I haven’t thanked so far. I will look at every school you recommend.</p>
<p>Mr.Mom, Rochester is on the list of schools to target. Very good school with good merit. And you are correct that need-based aid plunges around 150K.
SpiritManager, I’ve loved your posts on Lafayette. Keep them up. And the following applies to Grandison, too: just getting into an Ivy level would be very difficult for this child, as last year shows. Getting money of the kind I’m thinking of would be very very difficult, except maybe at Princeton. Cornell OOS, forget it.
Momrath, we’re looking at all those schools you’ve mentioned, and tk21769 we’re looking at some of those southern and Midwestern schools on Kiplinger’s list. It’s a great list for doing the search I’m doing. One note: because of their popularity, Richmond and Davidson have gotten hugely difficult to get big money from. I understand different schools have different policies for spending their money, and I’m not complaining.
Intparent, thank you for yet another posting. I am in complete agreement with you about distance being relative and thank you for pointing out that she’ll be a year behind her friends from high school. I’ll show her your post. It looks like that’s where she’s going.
Whenwhen, I was very glad to hear of a student’s perspective from a large state school. I will show her your post as well. I like very much your advice. It’s good advice for students everywhere. We are a social species, and most people’s education is improved by making contact if not friendships with as many students, faculty, and staff as they can.
Menloparkmom, you are right on target again. The brand names matter to so few people who matter and the difference between a brand and off-brand education is little to none. Having said that, we can now include USC among the brand names, you’re right, and consequently it has gotten incredibly difficult to get one of those full tuition scholarships today. I’ll take a look at it again, but USC might be as out of her merit reach as Duke. Great schools getting better all the time.
Juillet, I will have a look at Agnes Scott. I’m certainly aware of it but didn’t know it had money. Thank you for it and the other schools you mention from CC postings. I’ve looked at a lot of them.
Scmom12, I have not discounted state schools with honors programs, schools like Miami OH, OhioU, Ohio State, Maryland, Pitt, etc. If you’d like to mention “yours,” I’d be happy to look at it, too.
Mathyone, very good advice. The larger state schools I just mentioned all have that going for them, and it is a big selling point, as it is at Syracuse, Georgetown, Emory, etc.
DreamSchlDropout, I am now taking a look at New College. Thank you very much.
xiggi: I very much appreciate your critique of my thinking and our methodologies. It was one kind of advice I hoped for but couldn’t very well ask for. Last year, short of doing one-half the driving and proofreading essays, I didn’t have a lot to do with the process. She’s that kind of person. This year I insisted on more input and since she’s away doing her gap year stuff I got what I asked for. I began with the money question and everything has followed from that; however, I’d still like to give her as many choices as I can because until she spends a semester at Large State School she won’t be convinced she will find her soul-mates there. As for what went wrong at the safeties, I still don’t know. She was waitlisted in both cases and when I asked both regional recruiters if there was any glaring problem in the app they both said what you’d expect them to say.</p>
<p>I’ve looked at many more schools than I’ve named and have spread the net very wide. I will do so for a while longer. I feel she could get a good education at any of them, so it all comes back to money. I paid for my education in the early eighties by picking a large state school where tuition was less than $400 a semester. I worked a couple jobs and took out loans to pay r&b, and every semester the admin sent me a check for the cost of my tuition because I’d found a cadre of like-minded nerds and I fell in love with educating myself. She’ll be able to do that too; it’s just gonna cost her a lot more in loans because in the last 30 years we have as a nation given up on making state education affordable for every member of the state. Fortunately, it’s still affordable to me. Best of luck to all of you.</p>