<p>I totally understand the situation. My daughter has ADHD and struggles accedemically. It’s so difficult to look her in the eyes and tell her that she may not have the opportunities other kids have because she was unfortunate to be born with this disability. Isn’t it hard enough going through 12 years of school feeling insecure and not up to the standards of everyone else around you. She’s finally made it though high school and wants to attend college and this disability still haunts her with lack of acceptance letters or scholarships. Just once she (and I) want to see her evaluated for the person she really is and not for the grades she produces.</p>