<p>rd31: I felt that I had to respond to your post. I am actually impressed to hear that given the decision between Duke and Yale that you actually took the time to visit Duke. If I got acceptance letters from Duke and Harvard the last week of March, I would have probably not taken the time to even visit Duke myself. Hell, I was so narrow-minded and set on a few places that if I got into a place like Brown.. I might have not even visited Duke. The only way I would be sitting at a place like Brown or Harvard and be able to say that I visited Duke was if I did get off one of their waitlists..</p>
<p>It is very easy to avoid the drinking scene, if you want to. You just have to find the right people here. They exist. I found them.. even though I must say I am fond of the partying aspect of college myself. :p. You will be surprised by the # of people at Duke who are willing to play Risk on a Saturday night or to have a conversation about existentialism etc. People have actually told me that when they first met me that they thought I was just a 'party boy' and that my 'nerdy side' seems to come out more every day.</p>
<p>I bet the girl you met who is at Harvard now never bothered to ask, she never bothered to take the initiative to help foster the growth of intellectualism into social life. I also bet that she was someone who didn't get into Harvard the first time around and spent her years working to get into her dream school. I don't know, but my gut feeling is that she was someone who didn't give Duke a chance. I guess this, because that was once me. I was devastated by the fact I didn't get into any of my top choices.. Harvard, Brown, and Columbia. I settled for Duke. A mistake I made first semester (sticking with Orgo) has put me in a place where I could never transfer out of Duke into a college, such as Brown. I found at that point though that I loved Duke so much.. I didn't even care that I wouldn't be able to transfer into Brown. </p>
<p>My first semester at Duke was fun but unsatisfying intellectually. However, I found a great group of people on campus recently who I can have fun with and be intellectually stimulated by. I wonder if we would have been friends, if you chose to go to Duke..</p>
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When I went for Blue Devil days, the sophomore I spoke to told me that Duke is going downhill because the student body is deteriorating due to excessive drinking and partying.
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If anything, the student body at Duke is improving!
Duke is becoming more selective every year.
Everyone here is so intelligent, as is the case at Yale. </p>
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my friend says that no one in her English class even knows what a thesis statement; she also says how no one ever participates in her FOCUS discussion classes or in her English seminar.
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I have found that in my FOCUS seminar that people participated all the time. Some sections hold more of an air of apathy than others though.
No one knows what a thesis statement is in her English class? Oy! I am happy that in all of my humanities classes, everyone knew what it was. I'm happy that everyone I met at Duke seems to have knowledge of what it is, except maybe a lot of the Pratt students, :p</p>
<p>Yale is a great school, but so is Duke.
You don't really know Duke. How long did you stay there? One night? You do really know Yale. I don't really know Dartmouth, SUNY Binghamton, UVA or Georgetown, even though I visited all of these places and was seriously considering going to each one for college. What makes you so bitter about Duke?</p>