Masculinity

<p>“^^What if they cry in private?”</p>

<p>Then they would be crying wouldn’t they…?</p>

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<p>marry me please.</p>

<p>Why would one “cry for jesus?” Not trying to be mean, I seriously have no clue as to what you’re referring to.</p>

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<p>It doesn’t bother me.</p>

<p>I’ve NEVER seen my Dad cry in my life. I wasn’t with him when my grandma passed away…so the mystery behind if he actually cried or not. This was while I was stuck at my aunt’s house in Abu Dhabi and she was literally crying non-stop for 3 days even while ppl came over to pay their condolences. I, on the other hand didn’t even shed a tear. I think must be evil or something.</p>

<p>Well, one time I was lying in bed and I realized that I killed Jesus with all of the bad things I’ve done and thought about doing. Then I thought some more about how Jesus willfully died not just to pardon me for my little sins, but to pardon Hitler too, and people who would deny Him and foresake Him and refuse to believe in Him and never even know about Him. Then I thought about what a good guy that He must have been to endure a painful death for me and everyone I know and all of the wicked people who would ever exist too, and I just started crying because my sins helped kill Him. Then I converted to Christianity.</p>

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<p>Is your name Pontius Pilate?</p>

<p>Someone has to freakin’ die for me to think it’s cool for a guy to cry. Probably just that I don’t cry a lot and…yeah, I remember one guy at school cried because I think he just got stressed from athletics or because he was annoying and people were teasing him, so he just started crying…and yeah, I never liked the guy anyway so I teased him. But even if it’s a real good friend crying, I don’t know what to do (girl or guy), I’m just odd and I’d prefer it if you didn’t cry.</p>

<p>Hah, I loled at that. The point is that Pontius Pilate couldn’t kill Jesus if he wanted to. Jesus allowed Pilate to kill him because He understood that He had to die for our sake. Since I am not a perfectly good person, I forced His hand in that.</p>

<p>Once I made this one boy (best friend’s old brother) cry because I was teasing him. (this was in elementary school lol).</p>

<p>I also know how make my brother cry. But it takes a lot of effort.</p>

<p>Also, I feel like I should explain that my sn is just a pun on my first name (Christian) and I made it before I converted.</p>

<p>Cool story. ;)</p>

<p>Anyway, to answer the question, I don’t particularly mind crying, as long as it’s not often, has a valid excuse, and is executed attractively/not disgustingly with unnecessary drippy nasal substances.</p>

<p>^Haha, my father is an ugly crier. Complete with snot and his face contorted to look like a Jim Henson gremlin.</p>

<p>A guy may cry if…

  1. He is hit HARD in the nuts
  2. If an immedate family member dies as long as it is well hidden.
  3. A single tear allowed if his favourite sports team blows a loses the Super Bowl.</p>

<p>Do people really have tears of joy? And would it be in the same amount as if they were sad or is it just a few tears? I’ve never teared because of joy.</p>

<p>^^ Pretty much that.</p>

<p>Crying doesn’t fix anything; After you calm down the problem is still there.</p>

<p>^^I do. But, as aforementioned, I cry at everything. So, if there’s a happy ending to a TV show or something, I cry. I don’t know if I’ve ever cried because of happiness about anything real though.</p>

<p>I saw a guy laugh so hard that he started crying once. It was terrifying.</p>

<p>I’ve known a guy who was touched, mainly my brother who apparently got teary eyed at my dad speaking on his behalf in court and he denies it and says my died cried (note: my dad kinda adopted my brother, they aren’t biologically related but my dad did raise him in a kind of . Apparently a cop and judge cried also. Both my dad and brother are pretty manly guys that like to fight and get giant gashes and don’t flinch, so I’m constantly wondering what happened in that court house. I’m also like “ya’ll are pussies”.</p>

<p>What is the scientific reason for tears of joy? It’s not like you need cheering up or anything.</p>

<p>To be perfectly honest, it looks a little weird to me when a guy cries, but common sense comes quickly after and it’s rationalized that all human beings should be allowed to cry. </p>

<p>Then again, I don’t really like it when anyone cries in public, even girls.</p>

<p>What if a guy is emotionally hurt from something that happened in his life?</p>